It could thats true....guess I'm just trying to figure out what is holding us back. Some of his friends that I hadnt hung out with much until recently asked us when we dated, because the way we interact and get along and i guess whatever he has told them about me made them think that we had dated before. We talked about it a little....I'm jsut not sure if we are both scared of losing the friendship or???

I've heard some express the opinion that "If they don't have a pic up, they must be hiding something." I think that's a little too much of a blanket statement, personally, but you'll run across that a lot.

Personally, I wouldn't contact someone who didn't have a pic up and ask for one. I just don't feel it's my job to go hunting it down.

Bottom line is if you don't feel the need to post a pic, there's nothing wrong with that. Lots of people don't post pics. I think the statistics are pretty clear that people with pics up get more views, more attention, and probably more messages on a site like this one, but not everyone here is looking for those things.

What a lying jerk thing to do yanking his chain... guaranteed, hell tell you to go to hell...


and rightfully so... you deserve it... you are a munipulator of the worst kind.

That is so mean.

Or, as I have replied in the past, "Thanks but I don't think we are a match" they become rude and abusive. I avoid the possibility of these confrontations. Fool me once; shame on me. Fool me twice; then I am an idiot. I learn quickly!

I just delete and move on as I hope they do as well. :angel

c'mon on u guys are just absent from class