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Sun 01/27/08 03:34 PM
I'm extremely attracted to girls with black hair, I also like unnatural hair colors (like blue hair *winks to wolf*)

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Sun 01/27/08 03:28 PM

most of the time relationships dont last because of a few factors...in my experince....
1) trust...u need to trust eachother and make sure they know that..even if ur working on trusting them more...
2)personalitys- oppsites atrract yeah but more often then not if personalitys arent some what the same it wont work...
3)stages of life- if ur in diffrent places in ur lifes it wont work
4)maturaty levels- if one of u is more mature than the other it could work but most of the time it doesnt
5)goals- if you both have diffent goals.

those are just some reasons why relationship dont really last...or at least in my experence...its not always the case though...



perhaps the source of my problems is #4 and #5

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Sun 01/27/08 03:25 PM
actually im about to turn 19 and serve in the marines... I'm old enough to give my life for my country but not old enough to find a meaning relationship? thanks...

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Sun 01/27/08 03:16 PM

You're definitely good looking! What do you think you might be doing "wrong"?


It's something different everytime, the last girl i was interested in is now leaving for boot camp on the first and I will likely never see her again, b4 that this other girl i was dating had like a psychaotic breakdown or something... keeps it interesting i guess

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Sun 01/27/08 03:14 PM

there is someone for everybody


im sure about that

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Sun 01/27/08 03:12 PM
i didnt say they were a new band i said they were emerging, they didnt get any public attention until they let out the single "paralyzer"

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Sun 01/27/08 03:11 PM
not in my expierence

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Sun 01/27/08 03:09 PM
i can't seem to find a lasting relationship, something is wrong with me maybe? Everytime i go "out" with a girl it last for no longer than a month, I'm close to giving up. By the way, rate me. Am I dateable?

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Sun 01/27/08 03:06 PM
what does everyone think of the emerging band, finger eleven?

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Sun 01/27/08 03:01 PM
sounds like u need new friends

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Mon 01/21/08 06:01 PM
blushing thanks

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Mon 01/21/08 05:58 PM
I wrote this about a woman i care deeply for, we both leave for the marines soon. Tell me what u think? too corny?

When I see you my heart skips a beat,
A smile on your face is worth more than the cosmos.
Remember when I said I would sweep u off your feet?
I wish I could come to you in a fleet of limos.

When I see you my heart skips a beat,
My stomach fills with butterflies and my palms get sweaty.
Your love makes me warmer than the summer heat,
By comparision the stars themselve's seem petty

When I see you my heart skips a beat,
You haunt my dreams with whispers of passion.
The bond we have becomes stronger than reinforced concrete,
Promise to remember me when you eat your field ration

When I see you my heart skips a beat,
You're leaving soon into iraqi streets.
While your departure makes me do naught but weep,
I can always remember that for one night you were mine to keep.

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Fri 01/18/08 10:40 AM
i've had good luck here, i dont know why you havent, try talking in the forums more u meet more people that way

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Fri 01/18/08 10:39 AM
welcome m8 hf, gl drinker drinker

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Fri 01/18/08 06:14 AM
ive had a bad week but the weekend is looking up, heres hoping happy

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Thu 01/17/08 05:58 PM
its a better idea, and much less complicated to only date one at a time to find that one

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Thu 01/17/08 05:52 PM
jealousy, a girl is gonna get pissed if u are dating other girls besides her even if she doesnt say it. Her not saying anything is proof enough she is not happy about it. You need to make a choice, if you like her then get serious, otherwise let her down easy by telling her you're not ready for something serious. BUT DO NOT DRAG IT OUT, you're only gonna hurt her more the more you wait

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Mon 01/14/08 12:44 PM


huh

there's more than corn in indiana you know...

we got beans too!

You forgot the Indy 500 and The Children's Museum! That place is STILL awesome!


IVE BEEN THERE (museum) youre right it is awesome

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Mon 01/14/08 12:43 PM
o ok, np then.

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Mon 01/14/08 12:41 PM


i tried to talk to you a couple days ago and you blew me off
How so?


We were talking in IM and you just stopped talkin to me?

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