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Sat 12/15/07 02:18 PM
I'm 1/4 itaian (from what would have been the royal family of italy if mosolini hadn't taken over) & i find this offensive.

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Sat 12/15/07 02:01 PM

time to eat be back in a few. till then


Jason


same here, I'll be a bit longer duet to me haveing to do a load of things before even 1 drip of food can hit my lips.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:56 PM
heck the only lawyer i know is one of the ones that stood me up for a date.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:54 PM
type 2 they hope that when i lose wight they might be abel to controle in on pills allown, but till then i have to take my insulin (shooting up) & my pills,

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Sat 12/15/07 01:51 PM

gigm Im not sure you realize the severity of what u just typed, but that is y u dont have anyone. As long as u do that your already dead inside.
you assume i was talking about drugs, i was actualy talking about my insulin.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:50 PM



Well my thoughts are that either this is a put on, or a resolution to the issues at hand would require more than advice from an online forum.

Please don't take that the wrong way.

If you're just pulling chains, then: haha good one.

If you're serious, then I'd suggest working on the larger issues before worrying about seeking a relationship. You can only make something work when both people are living happy, stable, and well balanced lives. When there are severe problems as you discribe, this would greatly impede the ability to do normal things like begin a romantic relationship.

Best of luck...


ok so how can i deal with the situation? i can't move (can't afoird it), ignoring it doesn't work (last time i didn't dodge i ended up in hospital for a week, admittedly they also found out i have diabetes so that kept me in for longer than nessisary). so what can i do to resolve the issue?


Well there's definitely more to the story than what we've been told so far right? The vendetta needs to be resolved. If you honest to god seriously have someone purposely putting you in the hospital, that's something the police need to be informed of. Secondly, whatever vendetta there is would need to be resolved. I don't have all the information, so I can't really intelligently suggest how to fix it. But it definitely sounds as if it needs to be resolved.

The best advice I could give you is to maybe talk to someone who's qualified to help. A councilor or someone. These people can help you sort out your life and get back on track. Once that happens, you'll be prime to move forward, and hopefully move forward with the companionship of a lady.

That's my advice. Assess the damage, repair the damage, try again. Hope it helps.
i have see consillers (it affected my collage work so they forced me to). i honestly do not know why he does this to me.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:50 PM



Well my thoughts are that either this is a put on, or a resolution to the issues at hand would require more than advice from an online forum.

Please don't take that the wrong way.

If you're just pulling chains, then: haha good one.

If you're serious, then I'd suggest working on the larger issues before worrying about seeking a relationship. You can only make something work when both people are living happy, stable, and well balanced lives. When there are severe problems as you discribe, this would greatly impede the ability to do normal things like begin a romantic relationship.

Best of luck...


ok so how can i deal with the situation? i can't move (can't afoird it), ignoring it doesn't work (last time i didn't dodge i ended up in hospital for a week, admittedly they also found out i have diabetes so that kept me in for longer than nessisary). so what can i do to resolve the issue?


Well there's definitely more to the story than what we've been told so far right? The vendetta needs to be resolved. If you honest to god seriously have someone purposely putting you in the hospital, that's something the police need to be informed of. Secondly, whatever vendetta there is would need to be resolved. I don't have all the information, so I can't really intelligently suggest how to fix it. But it definitely sounds as if it needs to be resolved.

The best advice I could give you is to maybe talk to someone who's qualified to help. A councilor or someone. These people can help you sort out your life and get back on track. Once that happens, you'll be prime to move forward, and hopefully move forward with the companionship of a lady.

That's my advice. Assess the damage, repair the damage, try again. Hope it helps.
i have see consillers (it affected my collage work so they forced me to). i honestly do not know why he does this to me.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:46 PM
soz had to shoot up, & put some food on for when i have the munnchi's

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Sat 12/15/07 01:28 PM

Hmm, Gig, hard to say what you should ask for since I don't know you well. Computer/video games, clothes, tickets to some event? Me, I always ask for kitchen stuff, can't ever have too many gadgets laugh laugh laugh But, that's just me :tongue:

Hey Jen, Zman! Not doing anything here, yet, but it's supposed to start soon!




well on a games site where you save up points to get gifts i'm ordering a spoon wight. but even if i did just arsk for a gifts card i couldn't make up my mind what i would want to get from there.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:25 PM


Watch that movie, 40 year old virgin.
You might just learn something, or at least get a good laugh out of it.laugh



laugh laugh laugh


hum i might order it off the net.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:24 PM

Well my thoughts are that either this is a put on, or a resolution to the issues at hand would require more than advice from an online forum.

Please don't take that the wrong way.

If you're just pulling chains, then: haha good one.

If you're serious, then I'd suggest working on the larger issues before worrying about seeking a relationship. You can only make something work when both people are living happy, stable, and well balanced lives. When there are severe problems as you discribe, this would greatly impede the ability to do normal things like begin a romantic relationship.

Best of luck...


ok so how can i deal with the situation? i can't move (can't afoird it), ignoring it doesn't work (last time i didn't dodge i ended up in hospital for a week, admittedly they also found out i have diabetes so that kept me in for longer than nessisary). so what can i do to resolve the issue?

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Sat 12/15/07 01:21 PM

give him a pre loaded gift card that will work for any store


pleaas read before posting i was asking what i should arsk for not what i should give him.

I just asked for money from my parents, I'm saving up money for a new laptop
he doesn't like giving cash out as presents.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:15 PM




pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.


aren't there any girls your age, or older women where you live?
non that i trust, there is lots of slander around about me in my town, pepole try to run me over in there cars, throught stones @ me & so on so i don't trust easily in RL.
ohwell Then you have some serious problems. Thought about moving?


ya but i can't, i don't have annouth money to move. i'm still a student.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:11 PM
Edited by gigm on Sat 12/15/07 01:13 PM




pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.


aren't there any girls your age, or older women where you live?
non that i trust, there is lots of slander around about me in my town, pepole try to run me over in there cars, throught stones @ me & so on so i don't trust easily in RL.
What in the world are you talking about?? Something is going on that random people would to run you over and throw stones at you. Thats just not normal for anyone.

did i say random people? no i sead people, a very popular person has made it his personal mission to make my life a living hell, & so most of his friends (about 10K people) do that **** to me on a daily baseis.

ok maybe aslight egsaduration closer to 3,000,000 pepole but still it's alot.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:09 PM


most of the time i see no self esteem problem in me.


"begging" and being "desperate" (at least in this resolve) are signals of a problem in self esteem. You just may be going on hormonal overload and its a whirlwind for you right now.

in RL i am very difrent.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:06 PM


pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.


aren't there any girls your age, or older women where you live?
non that i trust, there is lots of slander around about me in my town, pepole try to run me over in there cars, throught stones @ me & so on so i don't trust easily in RL.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:04 PM
Edited by gigm on Sat 12/15/07 01:05 PM



maybe you are not listening to what they are saying?

QUOTE:

no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet.
what???
it's not me just going to wrong places.
I am thinking the place isn't whats wrong...


what is then? & before you say your sounding too desprate, in RL i am nothing like i am on fourms.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:03 PM
most of the time i see no self esteem problem in me.

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Sat 12/15/07 01:01 PM

maybe you are not listening to what they are saying?

QUOTE:

no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet.
what???
it's not me just going to wrong places.

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Sat 12/15/07 12:57 PM
no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet.