Good morning Leigh you are an equally awesome lady.

Your "Masturbate, masturbate, masturbate" from the other day, had me in stitches


TBH, I hadn't thought about the government 'punishment' side of older marriage which would definitely give me food for thought...

You are absolutely right, marriage does mean different things to different people and views on marriage and the reasons for getting married later can sometimes change with age.

I didn't say that was something wrong with older marriages.

The post isn't about being pro or anti marriage, it was about a change of opinion for me. Changing from something that I felt strongly about to being on the fence with.

If I am fortunate enough to meet another soul mate, I'm in the maybe camp instead of the definitely no camp.

Not so long ago, I attended the wedding of one of my oldest friends. Hands down, it was one of the best weddings that I have ever attended.

The couple (both in their mid/late 50's) looked great, the venue was fantastic, the food was good, the reception was so good, I sang myself hoarse and danced myself sober. It was great - fantastically tasteful and a real blending of two completely different people and mentalities.

Watching my friend walk down the isle made me really evaluate my views on marriage - I have my opinions about not being an older bride but I found that I am not as against it as I first thought.

What are your views on being an older bride/groom?

I knew it was a song title/lyric but had to look up who sang it

Exactly. If they're going to do something like that, the least they can do a little research. Deceitful and lazy, that's just so out of order

People that steal someone else's picture who then try to convince me that they're from a city that doesn't even exist in a country that you were born in...that really, really annoys me

Why do you say that?

My truth is that soul mates aren't gender specific so can be same sex or opposite gender IMO

Honestly...IMO it's because I have a no sex until I know him better rule.

Thank you k, that film and quote is definitely in my top 50

It's easier if you just get cards printed up that say "get your coat luv, you've pulled"

In the dating world, I think hello has more than one meaning.

That's why I think it is over used. I'm always in favour of the straight forward approach over the ambiguity that hello has become.

Low self esteem always has you thinking that it i��s ��you�� and not them�.

If they passed on you, it i��s their loss, not yours!!

Despite being gutted at the time, you both did me a enormous favour.

The longterm for keeping true to yourself and the short term for walking sooner rather than later. Thank you both

No,�� it does not. Good conversation, getting to know each other, s*x and the list goes on, keeps things interesting.

Controversy drains the well...

"I see all this potential, and I see squandering. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy **** we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives. We've all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact" Quote (Fight Club)

I met someone yesterday who sent me a fake photo. Guess what? I'm not seeing him again.

My philosophy is that if he can life about something so insignificant (and obvious) such as his age, height, appearance etc what else can he so easily lie about...not something to build a foundation on.

We barely got started but I miss you like mad!!!

My acts of kindness are not random; being courteous is just how I was brought up.

However in saying that, I am always appreciative when doors are open for me or when a man lets me precede him.

I understand the point you’re making but in my mind, it’s not the same thing. Theft is against the law in most countries, adultery isn’t (in some countries) although I do agree that both parties are/would be equally responsible.

I’m not accepting of nor do I condone adultery but if a married man chooses to pursue a single woman, in my mind he is ultimately in the wrong. It’s not up to the single woman to remind him of his marital status. She hasn’t made a commitment to his wife, he has and it’s up to him to honour it. However, if a single woman chooses to pursue a married man, then she is in the wrong. It’s about who makes the approach.

IMO, you can’t force someone to uphold what is essentially a moral obligation. If two people share the same moral compass, then all well and good but if they don’t then....

The only people that I can legitimately impose my moral beliefs on are my children and only up until they reach certain age.