thx joy4gud. All noted

thx joy4gud. All noted

thx all 4ur responses. I am particularly excited dat pple dat dont even know me r ready to take a bit of their time& invest on advicin me. Believ me wen i say i tak every word here to heart. Thx! Howeva, there's a dev.t. Yestady, he called explaing & even swear dat there's no other woman in his life & wat i saw aint it, dat he had blanked bcos he didnt kno hw 2explain &was worried hw he wud handle my reactions blabla. I sort of believe he was just been stupid 2try dat game cos he aint d type but i am choosin nt 2indulge it cos i'm hurt. He's comin 2c me friday. Here's one of 2things i plan 2do. Either i lash him, give him a chunk of my mind & ask him to leave or i play d gullible, say i'm cool & all is ok but strip him of good money (which i've previously bein helpin him save) for about a month & walk away. Anyone with a beta advice. Need 2make up my mind b4 friday. Thx

thx all 4ur responses. I am particularly excited dat pple dat dont even know me r ready to take a bit of their time& invest on advicin me. Believ me wen i say i tak every word here to heart. Thx! Howeva, there's a dev.t. Yestady, he called explaing & even swear dat there's no other woman in his life & wat i saw aint it, dat he had blanked bcos he didnt kno hw 2explain &was worried hw he wud handle my reactions blabla. I sort of believe he was just been stupid 2try dat game cos he aint d type but i am choosin nt 2indulge it cos i'm hurt. He's comin 2c me friday. Here's one of 2things i plan 2do. Either i lash him, give him a chunk of my mind & ask him to leave or i play d gullible, say i'm cool & all is ok but strip him of good money (which i've previously bein helpin him save) for about a month & walk away. Anyone with a beta advice. Need 2make up my mind b4 friday. Thx

thx 4 d heads up, though i must confess my situation as pushed me to sort of focus on online minglin & all though might not produce any major benefit relationship wise but i had let d illusion keep me a while b4 i snap out of it. U takia

I am confused. I meet a guy, we r great together but trying to surpress the excitement, i push the r/n long term so time can tell if it will last.. Perhaps wud have but issues come up & u breakup, u try again & again- same result. U then hear that every r/n got their issues even in marriage, so to me- it seems it aint d time that is strainin my r/ns.. Ok, u start a new one & u advocate settlin down early & it looks like u got somethin u hidin & tryin 2hang on d guy in marriage- so he freaks & we breakup. Lord God, which do i do next.. Long term (at 31) or swift move or .. Stay single & just hav a kid or 2 & forget marriage. PLS ADVICE

I start this topic cos it is the very experience I am going through now. How do you survive the days after the only love of your life breaks your heart and kicks it aside without remorse. How do you go through these days as a normal cheerful person to the world around you so you don't have to explain the ugly experience. How do you think to start again & explain to family & friends who are on their toes to celebrate your union. How do you manage a man who is a Catholic, knew along u are an active pentecostal and accepted u dat way only to insist in a very tempting way, at the verge of getting married that you turn Catholic? How do handle such a man when you try to explain how that might not be easy turns cold on you and within a twinkle have a new 'catholic' girl to love but still denies it. How do you live through the days of withdrawing yourself from a man you have built your world around only to expose yourself to the uncertainty of getting another man that could truely stick by you? How do you? Share with me & everyone who gets to read this perhaps, it will strengthen us to be better people & not revengeful to the next innocent man/woman coming our way. It is well with the good hearted.