it takes less than 30 seconds to type a couple of words and show a little respect for others feelings, but this site i don't think anyone much shows any respect whatsoever, if they don't want to talk to you it is the least they can do, and you state on your profile you are only here for the forums which gives me the impression that you sit here and spend time typing answers etc to posts, so where is the difference in taking a few seconds to respond to a contact email and say sorry not interested good luck in your search. i think it is disrespectful and hurtful. but most of the profiles on here i believe are fake anyway so i don't think i will be here for long, i only still have my account active atm because it is free.

I know i have only been here for 3 days but this is not the only dating site i am on and it happens on all of them, some ladies will take the 30 seconds to reply and say sorry not what i am looking for but most of them just ignore you completely, and regardless of what they are thinking it does hurt, maybe it's time i deleted this site as the majority of women are either overseas or have not been online in over 30 days which tells me the vast majority are not coming back. i am not interested in overseas profiles i have no money to travel to meet them in person nor do i have the money to pay for them to come and meet me, which i wouldn't do even if i could afford it, once the ticket is payed for who knows what they can do with it, a lot could probably go and cancel the ticket and get a refund of my money into their account or pocket.

i am wondering why most women won't answer a message sent to them even if it is just to say sorry not interested it shows you have respect for yourself and other people also. i am starting to believe the reason is most of the profiles on here are either scammers or are just fake computer generated profiles. either way i am starting to think this site is not worth the effort.