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Science and Free Speech
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The educational system is no help. Right up through high school, kids are not taught critical thinking. criticism isn't only dead in the schools, it's been buried. I think George carlin put it best in this routine about education (WARNING: graphic language): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jQT7_rVxAE No one is going to listen to George. He was a potty mouthed, pot smoking atheist. Which gave him an insight, and depth of character that is non-existent in the sweet talking, Bible beating preachers that condemn anything that takes a brain to understand. And understanding does not = agreement! |
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Topic:
love
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Becoming a "life long partner" requires that you are willing to give your life to that other person in exchange for theirs. You don't really give up your life you simply add your partner's life to yours. The exchange rate for such a bargain is exclusivity in intimacy. The cost is giving up the right to say "NO".
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Topic:
How soon?
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I normally would only give my cell number and not my home phone number. And you can block callers to the cell line |
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Most men don't communicate as well as most women. That goes both for sending and receiving clues like body language. I'd suggest you either flat out tell him of your interest or send a very strong single like "accidentally" touching his penis. I remember a woman once doing the latter to me. She then smiled and said "excuse me" while looking at my crotch. Pretty bold on her part, but it also showed a lot of confidence. I liked it. Disagree. Most men communicate extremely well. Most women communicate extremely well. Just not with each other. |
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Honesty first, second, and always. If you enjoy him then let him know. Do not use the word "Love" unless you mean it. For me it takes time to love so saying it very soon in a dating sequence is a red flag.
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Topic:
The Mind
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I believe you can. Intelligence with out arrogence is a big turn on for me. I agree. Intellect is the tie that binds, all other aspects are fleeting. However, arrogance, is self-assurance without cause. If it is true then it isn't arrogance! Maybe humility on steroids. |
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Topic:
Sex & Dating
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Whether sex is enjoyed on the first date or the tenth does not matter. Discussing sex before it is experienced is the key. There is a fine line as to the timing of this discussion and by whom. It is nice to know that she is thinking about sex, but if she brings it up then he starts taking off his clothes. If he brings it up then she is looking for the exit.
If you can't talk about it openly then I doubt you can actually pleasure another person with it. |
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Topic:
The End is Nigh
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Choose your battles wisely. Car radios are for background noise not for listening. Racism, where and on what your money is spent, sex (frequency and form), common topics of conversation, these are what makes or breaks a relationship. If a fuc*ing radio station is a deal breaker one or both of you have bigger issues.
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Topic:
Reconnection
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Does being friends with a past love matter to you? What would you do if they approached you and wanted to talk again? Are you the person that looks back or moves forward? Does it depend on how bad the breakup was? Not only on how bad the breakup was but the underlying, real reason for the breakup. |
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Topic:
Women
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Well I have it all.
I just choose not to horde. ;-) |
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Topic:
Looking for Fun
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Dang, So is it possible to be no fun in the sack? Depends on how long you've been married. |
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live with mingle die when single hey hi guys me again want to share something in every 10 persons age group of 20to30 half of them are single but the ratio of men against women are almost equal all over the world why why why why soo single reason are different for mens And womens women-half of them are single cuz of there looking impossible looks if u r a women seeking a guy live with Ur attitude thing but never look like a impossible catch And other half are single cuz of there shyness half of my collage life a girl stare on be but she never been able to tell me what she thinks about me so when ever u like some one just tell them they are not gonna beat u with sticks may be they could reject u but that will also help u to move on now for men- Men are mens And some people call it like mens are dogs they are always ready to put there stick in any whole the can find:)lol half of them are singles cuz of there uneasy ness with women i know a lot of my frnds who are so easy with male frnds And talk with them hours without making them bore but can't spend 10min with a girl or don't get a spoon to talk about 2nd reason is guts And patience first they will never had guts to tell a girl what they think about her or even after she said yes they don't have patience to move step by step they definitely try to embraces her And either she run away or guy get a faceslap that's enough for today please lett me know what do think about it a lot of regard And love don't wast Ur time on this idt box And go on a hunt like some real hunters;) What a pile of crap this is. You don't know jack about relationships. And he knows less about grammar |
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give up and buy a kitten or a puppy I did what u are talking about twice - started dating after a long marriage and later again after a LTR that I had after my marriage disassterous so far Ima committed singleton warning warning will robinson - the guys don't change much from the teenage years - they tend to misrepresent their intentions to get in your pants and then gossip about you like school boys - the double standards still exists - they call you a slut if you sleep with them and a ho if you won't - they complain about you making them wait for sex but then ditch you after one night if you don't play the make 'em wait game. so it's their own fault that we make them wait I love you guys but it is what it is being married or in an LTR will make you temporarily forget about these male foibles and you will think you are dealing honestly on the first few dates as a newly singlton - I REPEAT - that is a mistake...review the high school rules and all your mama warned you about the boys - as they have not outgrown these things .....then go have fun...'cos gosh we do love the buggers I disagree. Most men have been raised by women. So if you do not like the way you are treated by men then change the way you teach us when we're at your knee. |
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You love a person based on:
1. the things you have in common, and 2. the things you don’t have in common, and 3. you ability to celebrate and tolerate the interaction of both. You enter into a relationship with the person you love when you are ready to make that commitment and have a love concurrently. If you try to force either the relationship or the love it is doomed for disaster. |
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Topic:
Reconnection
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For me, it depends on how bad the breakup was. I'm still friends with my last gf. It was a mutual break up and she moved back to the mainland with her kids. We chat online once in a while My ex wife on the other hand, I consider her dead to me and would rather never speak to her or lay eyes on her again. Harsh but true. Yes this |
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Topic:
what do you do,
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Figure out and fix what's causing the problem. my thought too,, I hate this cultural belief that you either 'are' or 'arent' attracted to someone attraction can develop over time and it can be lost and developed again,, its not an absolute,,, attraction is 99 percent in the brain and 1 percent in the genitals,,, Damn! |
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Topic:
whats wrong with me?
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I dont understand..i have excellent hygiene, always smell good, impeccable dresser, kind, attentive, honest, drama free, fun loving, calm very communicative and yet I can't find someone to love me. Do I have to bash a guy over the head to bring him home with me? Caveman style? Everytime I meet someone they just want to hop in the sac. Whatever happened to getting to know each other first and find compatibility to analyze if the relationship will even last. I dont want to jump from bed to bed..just to get to know a man..am I wrong? Yes |
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Topic:
Broken Hearts
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Oh poop
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Topic:
Jerks
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? you give a guy/girl all you have... and they don't want it. you give them less and they thrive for it. its a constant game men and women play. I would love a woman forever if she truly gave me her "all". Haven't met one yet who went to that extreme. And yes I believe that I have given all that was mine to give. |
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Topic:
Significant others and pets
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I would determine how important the pet is to my date long before she became a "significant other". Either I'm #1 or we remain just friends or f*** buddies. I will not dictate her status in a relationship. She will choose.
This means that if she introduces her "purse pet" as "my baby", I'll be cordial, we'll have a nice date, and we'll part never to meet again. |
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