For me, within 100 miles isn't too far. It is a drive I can make without getting worn out b4 I get there and close enough where I can drive back in the same day. To expand on this topic, when I think about meeting a person over an hour away, I feel the need to cram as many activities into that day and get the most out of it. How many and What kind of activities do you do? And how do you plan them if you aren't familiar with the area you are visiting? What if you are meeting someone for the first time and don't want to pressure them into "lets go hang out at your place"? I don't want to drive so far just for a quick lunch and then have to come all the way back, any suggestions?

Yes it was supposed to mean that a broad uses sex only to hook the guy in. She is taking advantage of our weakness and thats evil and does not deserve my respect. And if she is successful in hooking him with it then that only makes it worse. It's like saying all that matters to stay in a relationship is if you are good enough in bed...

"broad" is kind of a less respectful way to call a female. From best to worst in my book it goes: Lady, Woman, Chick, Broad, Bi**h, Sl*t, Wh**e, etc... To me "bloke" feels kinda the same way.

sex should be saved for a special person that you want to be long term and romantic with, not for friends and not just because you are horny. Thats the way I was always taught to think of it, but funny, hardly no one treats it that way. Its terrible :(

Yes it can happen. Sex may even speed things along a bit. But before you do, find out if he is interested in a relationship or not. Don't have to ask if he would be interested in a relationship with you personally, just in general. Most guys I know have an opinion on the topic and are very straightforward about it. See what kind of answer you get from that question, it will tell you a lot. Just please don't be that type of broad who thinks if you throw a little sex his way then he will fall in love. He will only fall in love with the sex (if it is good) and thats all you will be good for. Been there, done that, learned some valuable lessons.

What defines crazy to one person may not to another. Just have to find your match.

Good advice, maybe it will help me :)

Yep, everyone's different and goes at a different pace. But don't call me crazy because of that! Lol. I'm probably just lashing out from past experiences. True, I do know some guys who are insecure and NEED their lady to comfort them every hour. But every relationship i've seen takes one person or the other to push it forward. Things don't just happen on thier own. All relationships take work and when the other isn't trying or making an effort, we get upset and go "crazy". To me its not about knowing if they are the right one, its about diving in head first and working hard to make it right for you.

I've been called crazy :( Yea in my last relationship, I started talking about moving in after about 2 weeks. I don't see what's wrong with moving things along, some of us guys actually know what we want... Why waste time?, why hold your feelings back?, why pretend? Why do you think we're insecure and crazy just because we are serious about getting serious and "going steady" as it was once called? Not insecurity, it means that we know what we want and have confidence to move on to that stage. The guys and gals like those above me who are afraid of commitment are the ones who are insecure. This thread offends me >:(

Welcome Raymund. After viewing your profile, I agree that it is a little vague. Your profile is ok... But it is not GREAT! :D Add more pictures and you should go into more detail with what you've got, like more about what you're studying. Put yourself in that single gal's shoes and think about what you could write that would interest her enough to contact you. The goal is to give as many opportunities and ideas to get someone to talk to you. Your profile is not bad by anymeans and would do just fine, but thats my advice. Good luck!

You know what I meant :P

I honestly don't know. There's lots of different women out there.

Everyone likes movies, music, and travel, thats a given. Mom of 3? Ok, but not the only thing I wanted to know. What kind of training do you do? Why are you only looking for friends? Those kids need a dad!!

I also recommend getting a burner, external hard drive, or just a flash drive depending on your needs. There's lots of free programs on the net that you can use to make backups of your device drivers, programs, registry, etc. Unless you are trying to make a disk that would fresh-install the operating system (I'm guessing Windows). Unfortunatly, there is no option in Windows to make such a disk that I'm aware of. You need the original install disc first and then make sure you have access to all of the device drivers before you attempt the OS, as they are lost when you do a fresh install and some parts of your computer (like internet connection) may not work until you have the correct drivers installed!!

Hopefully you are like me, and try to FIX problems in a relationship, instead of taking the easy way out and simply moving on to the next (like a wh@re). The problem is that your sweetheart is not serious enough about your relationship and is too flirty. She should not be feeling the need to have these male friends, you should be enough for her. Attempting to make her jealous is not going to solve this problem, but only add fuel to the fire. I don't have any guaranteed solutions, but at least can give the advice that your approach is all wrong.

The admin on these forums do a fantastic job of taking out the trash. You don't get that on other free forums.

..... It seems to me that when a man bugs a woman to grow her hair, she will go and cut it, just to be evil. But if the guy pretends that he doesn't care, then she keeps it long bc she knows he likes it... Why is that? Not just with hair either.

I attempted to date a woman with short hair... It didn't last long, probably because I kept bugging her about it. :P

It has to be long! I've never met a woman who IMO looked good with short hair. I don't get it when I hear "oh that short cut looks so cute on you!" No it doesn't!! You look weird! Idk I think its just a visual cue for me and yea I like to have something to touch/grab/pull/flip/play with. Long hair is so wonderfull!

Why do you want to work in the USA?