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Good pics, but there's a lot of what you don't want and very little positivity. Try being a little more light-hearted in description. Good luck and welcome to Mingle2!

Well, I would say the common denominator in all those scenarios is you. Take a look at yourself and see what it is you are doing to invite these situations.

This is the second negative posting you have here that I'm aware of regarding yourself and dating situations. I don't know if you're really that needy or fishing for compliments, but negativity breeds negativity.

Well I would say if you're not looking for nice, then yeah, you might find nice a bit boring. But...some of the most rewarding and memorable times in my life have been in the company of 'nice' folks.

The photos you have posted on your profile do not appear to be those of someone who lacks confidence in their appearance. The fact that you have attracted guys long enough to become dumped, tells me it perhaps has little do with your appearance. Anyone crass enough to contact you to tell you they think you are hideous has really done you a favor by deleting himself from your prospect list...one down....

From your profile, beneath where your photo will appear is the option to "Edit Photos". You can upload a photo from there.

We have many members here from many different countries who aren't as learned in the art of writing/speaking English, so I think patience and tolerance of our cultural differences is warranted.

There are many folks born here in the States, who, for whatever reason, also aren't as well educated in spelling and proper punctuation, and others who just don't care one way or another. Either way, IMO it is not a reflection of their character, their intentions, integrity, or what is in their heart, and those are the things I think that are most important.

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Well written, nice photos.

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Not a bad profile. Perhaps some punctuation would help folks reading it. Otherwise, it's good. Welcome to Mingle2

Your husband has my sympathies.

I'm not sure how anyone with 3 kids has time to become bored.

While you're profile says little, it speaks volumes of your true intentions by the mere fact that you're on a dating site looking for someone to ease the boredom, despite your protest to the contrary.

If you don't work outside the home, perhaps you should, or do some volunteer work, or spend the time getting to know your kids, or get some counseling for yourself. Risking your marriage, hurting your husband and putting yours kids through the upset and pain should you get caught just because you're bored is selfish, self centered, and cruel.

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Another one of our best and brightest gone too soon. Besides her beautiful rendition of "Always Love You" I remember her performance of the National Anthem...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jeUINzHK9o

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtrMLkTFpMw

Sadly, I lost this little guy a couple of months ago. He darted into the street while visiting friends and was hit by a car.

I really was not looking for another fur baby or even sure I wanted another, but my sister found this little cutie...how could I say no?! Meet Maggie!

Is there a favorite place she likes, or the two of you enjoy together? How 'bout where you met? All good places to plan a surprise proposal. Definitely would advise against the IM thing unless you're ready to hear an unfavorable reply.

I was thinking ahout this...sometimes we feed into these folks by playing the role they have selected for us in their lives, because, hey, at least it's some kind of relationship with them, right? If we want them to see us differently, we need to break that cycle. Make them see you in a different light, maybe it'll get you out of the friend zone. For instace, if you are use to sharing experiences that require you to only wear sweats and jeans, plan an event/activity that requires both of you to dress more formally..this does not mean renting a tux and buying a gown! If you're stuck in a rut of the same kind of activities, plan something that you are good at it and makes you shine.

Yep, sometimes exactly what you're lookin' for has been right under your nose the whole time. Gotta take the blinders off, stop viewing folks with tunnel vision, think outside of the box.