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Topic: am I too ugly to date
seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 08:53 AM
Maybe it's why I've always been dumped. But the responses I've received all my life have been mixed. Usually negative though.

CowboyGH's photo
Wed 06/25/14 09:03 AM

Maybe it's why I've always been dumped. But the responses I've received all my life have been mixed. Usually negative though.


You're quite pretty :). I like how your eyebrows are shaped :) very neat. Why do you feel it's something physical to why they've left you, dumped you? Do relationships these days purely or mostly revolve around the physical side? If so, then that right there is reason enough for the relationship not to work.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 06/25/14 09:08 AM
It's not entirely true. I think ugliness stems from the inner more than the outer. The world forgets this because attractiveness blinds what's really going on underneath. Otherwise I don't really believe people are ugly on the outside, not everyone is going to be attracted to you, but you never know.

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 09:18 AM
Looks dont last forever its inner beauty that counts,
everything changes with time.

daziemae's photo
Wed 06/25/14 09:34 AM
You're not unattractive.

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 09:57 AM
Neither are you daziemae,very nice.xx

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:10 AM
Then why have I been rejected so many times

kc0003's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:14 AM
Stop worrying what other people think, learn to be comfortable in your own skin. That will breed confidence and confidence is very appealing.

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:30 AM
I sum it up to personality sometimes but what about guys that message me saying I'm ugly. . This has happened way too often

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:35 AM

I sum it up to personality sometimes but what about guys that message me saying I'm ugly. . This has happened way too often


Guys like that don't deserve the time of day from you. Don't let it get you down, ignore them.

Good luck flowerforyou

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:37 AM

I sum it up to personality sometimes but what about guys that message me saying I'm ugly. . This has happened way too often


Doesn't mean that's the way it's always going to be.

rebelgeek's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:37 AM

I sum it up to personality sometimes but what about guys that message me saying I'm ugly. . This has happened way too often


You are lovely. Guys who go out of their way to message you and tell you you're ugly are trolls, not legitimate partners. You can't see yourself thru the eyes of people who are just on these sites to mess with people's self-esteem.

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 10:43 AM
For instance some guy named is telling me I. Hideous but out of the clear blue. Sometimes these words stick especially when you've been told so all your life

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 11:07 AM
Maybe I wouldn't be so bitter if I felt better about myself

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 11:12 AM
The photos you have posted on your profile do not appear to be those of someone who lacks confidence in their appearance. The fact that you have attracted guys long enough to become dumped, tells me it perhaps has little do with your appearance. Anyone crass enough to contact you to tell you they think you are hideous has really done you a favor by deleting himself from your prospect list...one down....

seethestar's photo
Wed 06/25/14 12:03 PM
Has anyone ever been numbed by negativity

no photo
Wed 06/25/14 12:11 PM
You look extremely sexy with your arm raised.

shahabshahab's photo
Wed 06/25/14 12:40 PM
hi,,just change your glass,,i view as different.

rebelgeek's photo
Wed 06/25/14 12:55 PM



I sum it up to personality sometimes but what about guys that message me saying I'm ugly. . This has happened way too often


You are lovely. Guys who go out of their way to message you and tell you you're ugly are trolls, not legitimate partners. You can't see yourself thru the eyes of people who are just on these sites to mess with people's self-esteem.
so well said!



Thanks!

:smile:

rebelgeek's photo
Wed 06/25/14 01:02 PM
We've all been the target of negative comments, and it hurts. But the people who send you nasty messages are strangers, and more importantly, they are bullies. It hurts to get bullied, but who you are is not defined by them. Your value isn't defined by anyone else, not even those who love you, it comes from within.

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