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Topic:
guys vs girls - part 41
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guys vs girls - part 41
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Circumambulation
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Topic:
guys vs girls - part 41
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Thinking; How great it is to meet nice people.
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PHOTO'S
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When I first came on line I was really hesitant to post pictures because one I was afraid of attracting a kook or getting responses from people I had worked with in a professional setting as a social worker. There professional distance is a big deal; even a safty issue. Knowing convicted felons and profoundly mentally ill have computer access and skills that put mine to shame I was nervous. But I quickly found out that nice people felt if they stuck their neck out to be honest and upfront they pretty much expect the same thing so I added conservative pictures. Yes I have gotten some responses I would just as soon forget but most are nice and I have come to see the majority who don't post pictures are usually hiding something; usually a partner or a mean mouth where their picture being posted would get their profile flagged. Doesn't mean I run right out and have my picture taken every six weeks for the collectors and neurotics that have to have a photo resume to decide wheather my current looks are acceptable to them. lol But then I don't profess to be anything but what I am. LOL. Sweet and true. |
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Careing and considerate of others without making a big production of it. You just know when a persons good manners and kindness are just how they are and not a show to make a good impression. Someone who doesn't promise you the moon but keeps the promises, even the little implied ones. Someone who owns his responsibility in things. It isn't just one thing but a series of things that makes me feel feircly loyal to them. Well Put! |
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How do you like your ....
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Some great replies. I agree being honest and open is critical. I am learning as I go to try to tell the most important stuff but let the conversations kind of take their course naturally. I have found some of the little stuff is not that important to tell for a person who may or may not turn out to be significant. My expression, especially my eyes, generally shows what I like and don't like so unless a guy REALLY has to have the dots close together my smiles and caresses tell him when he is on the right tract. I do believe the whole dating process tends to do a hatchet job on peoples self esteem. Especially now days when expectations for first dates seem to be so extream. So you think that whenever a person is not entirely forth coming that it may be an esteem issue? or acceptence issues? |
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On belief...
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I would just like to make a small point that if this line of thought were anywhere near being accurate, it would lead to the logical conclusion that for example; a human being walking the face of this earth with no prior knowledge of hand guns and bullets would not ever run the risk of being shot... as we all know that that is not true, babies get hit by stray bullets all the time, ( and not because someone showed the newborn a gun so they could know what it was) therefore the entire aruguement does nothing but create a paradox.
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guys vs girls - part 41
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Conjecture
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How do you like your ....
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I believe in laying it ALL out honestly and fully right up front - at the beginning. And even then, in my experience, you may have to do it again periodically, because it's a lot for the other person to take in. I've been on the receiving end of too much dishonesty and evasion to do it any other way than brutal honesty. There's nothing lonelier, to me anyway, than being in the wrong relationship. I agree with you 100%. Wish more people respected brutal honesty.And as far as getting stuck in the wrong relationship been there done that, it gave me a glimsp into why people snap.No one should be lied to from my point of view not even a lie of ommission. |
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Topic:
How do you like your ....
Edited by
cinnamoncookiemeat
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Tue 10/11/11 07:43 AM
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The reason for the topic is that I've run across alot of people who are not open with their mates and then they don't understand why they have communications issues. I've also found alot of people who feel that if they tell their mates specific likes and dislikes that they run the risk of scaring them away. And sorry don't have spell check but, enjoy sarcasam so thanks!
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C is for cookie thats good enough for me,C is for cookie thats good enough for me,C is for cookie thats good enough for me-, Oh cookie, cookie, cookie, starts with C. Sorry had to..
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Topic:
How do you like your ....
Edited by
cinnamoncookiemeat
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Tue 10/11/11 07:41 AM
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When in a relationship do you find it hard to just say what it is you like from the way you like your coffee, to the way you like your sexual positions? Do you consider yourself a shy mate? And if you've been with your mate a while do you still have quircks that you hide from them?
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Topic:
little johnny
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ROTFLMBO
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Edited by
cinnamoncookiemeat
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Tue 10/11/11 07:08 AM
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Well, I never meant an endearing fellow until I meant my fiancee, It's his strength not physically mentally. He was shot in 06, at the age of 20 right before his 21st b-day. He was paralyzed and he refused therapy and taught himself how to walk again. When I am low I need a mate who gives me strength just by being themself and that is what he does. He encourages me to meet people and make connections and come out of my shell, and all because I see his strength.
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Topic:
Not Washing His Boxer
Edited by
cinnamoncookiemeat
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Tue 10/11/11 06:58 AM
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Ummmmmmmm...no it's not normal it is down right nasty, and I would hate to be the lady that had the pleasure of smelling that. ewwwwww!!! Dear God My mom and dad are in their 60's is this what I have to look forward to because I did not sign up for that.
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Edited by
cinnamoncookiemeat
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Tue 10/11/11 06:50 AM
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Thinking; I need to retire early so I can get on with my life.
Also thinking; Why do people call big companies and ask for employees only by first names? I mean really? |
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