But why, if his children had things come up , why would it upset you,
Couldnt you just change your plans and go as well.
It is so important for a child to know that their parents are their.
Ultimately you have to work together, but when it comes down to it, the child needs to come first.
After all the child had no say in being born, they are their parents respnsibility so they should be first.

Nah , he just had a low IQ

Nope that is one thing i do not ever want complete honesty with.

Ok I am never going to ask you how i look.

Yeh I could handle it, I probably wouldnt really do it by choice, but if i had loved someone who was Army I would make it work.

My daughter is married to an Army boy and they do fine, they make it work when he is away, it's hard on both of them. They have just had their first baby, he was 6 weeks early and is still in hospital, Her hubby is on 4 days notice to fly out if he is needed and will be gone for at least 6 months, when he leaves.

So you pretty just have to find someone who can deal with it, maybe someone like my daughter who has a lot of family support while he is away..

and Boobs

sorry wux

so they say "You look great"

You say, "Thanks, I'm really sorry that you don't look as good as me", and then invite them in for a cuppa.
Is that before or after they give you an uppa cut.

I am always shocked when I see an old friend, as I forget that I have gotten so much older and am shocked that they look old enough to be grandparents. So how do you say that nicely even though you are a grandparent.

"Oh my you look so much older, what ever happened to you. "

Nah think I will stick with the you look great. I dont care if people lie about how i look.

Like really , when I say I have 6 kids ,I like them to say "REally you dont look old enough. "i dont want them saying, "yeh I could tell , just look at you ""


Or If I say I am a grandparent, I like to hear, wow you still look great""
Not, ÿeh you don't look like you used to.

gosh my mirror tells me that every morning..

A nice little lie is just what I need at the start of every day

Wux love everyone

A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away.

Well if you imagine them looking worse in your mind ( picture something horrid) and then tell them that they look good.
After all, I figure that anyone who knew me years ago is thinking Wow, she is older, but of course they are going to say Wow you look good.

Come on Wux, you know how easy it is to love everyone who talks to you on the internet,
it's having someone who makes you feel good about yourself and takes an interest, you can say and talk about things that you may not when you are first getting to know people face to face.
But as for putting a crush on here , that would suck big time, then if the other person felt nothing what rock can you crawl under.
Without you do it jokingly to just test the waters.


Anyway I can do it Anacondaarms does it still count even though we are married now. I still have a crush on him, just not so secret.

My Hubby has a concorde and it's a great car, but I like the bigger one.

However, whatever you buy, get a mechanic to go over it top to bottom first, it may cost a few dollars but will save on the long run.

When I visited america i almost died of shock over the second hand cars that are allowed to be sold over there, here they would be classed as a road hazard.

Fpr reliability Toyota's always stay at the top of the list, they are well made.

I know that some models of the concorde had problems, but it all depends on the car, do the people have detailed service records.

As with any older car, they are going to start to need repairs, check what has already been done, at least then you can cross it off the list.

Here belts and other things normally need replacing around 180 k's . I think that is somewhere around 100 odd miles, this can be expensive as will the other things that start going.

We owned a car yard in Australia for years , so just be careful, find out why the people are selling it, normally it's because a car is starting to have a few problems. Don't believe anything a salesman tells you.

I had one salesman in america try to tell me that the smoke the car was blowing was just because it hadnt been started for a few days
Any simpleton could tell that the motor was on it's last legs.

so whatever you do, take someone who knows about cars.

Have fun car shopping

I know, I think that at different stages we love differently,
When i was younger I was more selfish and it was more about me.
Then it went to where I seemed to put me way behind everything and didnt even know who I was, my life circled around my children and my husband.

Now, my life seems to be stable, I know who I am and what I want. I am happy to be a part of someone elses life, while still keeping my own life and sharing it.

I am not sure if it the person you are with, or just changes you go through.

I think I love easily, just very very differently, I really don't know, if I have loved each person, or just been infatuated, or what it is.

I really don't know, sometimes i am not even sure if I know what love is.

I am happily married, well I think I am, and I think I love my Husband, but what is it exactly.

I hate being away from him, I feel safe when he is near. I trust him, I respect him, He makes me laugh, I can tell him anything and know that he wont judge me.

I need him in my life as he completes me in some way and just knowing that he is there makes things easier. I enjoy how he looks smells and feels. Could I find it with someone else, yep probably but I have never met anyone else who is like a part of me and that I actually enjoy being with constantly, who i can be myself with and enjoy him just as he is. There is nothing that I would want to change , even if I could. He seems to have been made especially to suit me.

So maybe there are only a few who are really for you.

it would be so much easier if each man came with an instruction manuel, so we didnt waste so much time with the wrong ones

Hmmmm, How about we let them test it first, if it doesnt fit where it shouldn't stick, then it is a big number and if it does then it's a small number. Might as well give them something else to whinge about

I am happy to listen to anyones opinions, but when they become load and try pushing their opinions on me, I giggle, normally that doesnt impress them that much, so they end their discussion.

The more serious someone gets the more it makes me giggle.

What is it with that

Anything that they know isnt true when they say it, or that they know they probably wont be able to do.