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Mine is not going pretty good. https://medium.com/date-helper/what-have-i-learned-from-2-years-of-online-dating-cfe54d698bbb DO you think it is all about app-s to be successful ? |
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The aim of the question is about the process of starting a distant relationship, would you trust the process and its success till the big step of marriage? I honestly believe it depends on the age, finances and maturity of the individual I think the older you are the more chances of it working, but it depends on the individual , if you're the type of person that thrives on physical contact, and quantity time then its not going to work. I honestly believe if you're in your 20's with not much dating experience long distance relationship will not work you have a higher percentage of failure because of the unrealistic exceptions . I think the older you are the more chances of it working, but it depends on the individual , if you're the type of person that thrives on physical contact, and quantity time then its not going to work. ***** Mainly because the older you are, the more you are equipped with experience(types of character you have met)and therefore your brain knows exactly what to expect and what you want from a specific person. On the other hand, physical contact and quantity time spent together is the basic, (the footprints of the relationship)which distantly will go slow....if you are patient enough and trust the person next to you, with a bit of luck also (because of circumstances/ the agreement between the two of where to live together ) things will fall into place... I think this kind of relationships are for those people who want to challenge themselves enough and face a lot of difficulties along the way because the road is not always straight or how you imagine it but that's how you grow, no? |
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long distance relationship is delicate, i believe it works mostly for married couples, try all means to live with your spouse no matter what because there are so many temptations out there, we're only humans and not perfect i'd rather not leave room for temptations. The aim of the question is about the process of starting a distant relationship, would you trust the process and its success till the big step of marriage? |
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One will always go with the easiest choice, will not take risks and dare to walk that way....
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Can it work? it depends on the individual, where they are living , time zones eg, if you live in Canada and the other person the USA, same time zones, up to 3 hours flight , I say its 50/50 When you start factoring in Time zones, outside of the USA , for instance Europe, Asia, you have to factor in cultural differences, and no amount of face time can bridge the gap, you have to meet and spend time with them. I think it can work for people meeting on the forums because you have a reference from their postings so its just a matter of meeting and seeing if there is that connection. The problem is and Newsworthy hit it right on the head when he said It can be complicated, both people may be happy in the country they live in and never want to leave. That is so true as it happened to me once, I was on another site which is now defunct and I met two people from the forums, and one was exactly as was advertised and it came down to each one of us didn't want to leave our countries. The problem is and Newsworthy hit it right on the head when he said It can be complicated, both people may be happy in the country they live in and never want to leave. This is an easy decision: You simply don't start it!! Apparently its not easy, it takes great courage to go through all the challenges that one might find along the way ...think is all about that... |
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Long distance as in a different country, I would not want to go that far personally. Yes its a matter of personal choices in the end, why are you skeptic? It can be complicated, both people may be happy in the country they live in and never want to leave. Another one is hearing about too many stories about scammers or catfish. When it comes to scammers story, yes that's a big issue and real but besides...would that let's call it ''sacrifice'' traveling back and fourth be worthy in the end? |
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Edited by
sunintheeys
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Sun 07/08/18 10:04 AM
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Long distance as in a different country, I would not want to go that far personally. Yes its a matter of personal choices in the end, why are you skeptic? |
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If it is true love and temporary, it should be able to work, but still difficult. I say temporary because if the two involved really love one another then one could assume that plans would be in place for the two to live together therefore the distance would no longer be an issue. However you did say start. That could be problematic and not worth the endeavor. Unless there is more to the story that I am not privy to. Yes the question point is about starting a relationship (online) e.g. dating somebody you know from mingle2 |
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If it is true love and temporary, it should be able to work, but still difficult. I say temporary because if the two involved really love one another then one could assume that plans would be in place for the two to live together therefore the distance would no longer be an issue. However you did say start. That could be problematic and not worth the endeavor. Unless there is more to the story that I am not privy to. Yes the question point is about starting a relationship (online) e.g. dating somebdy you know from mingle2 |
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Yes, the question point is about starting a relationship (online)
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How easy or difficult is it?
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Thank you for sharing thoughts and time with me, willing to make my profile more successful in obtaining good results.
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Edited by
sunintheeys
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Wed 07/04/18 10:12 AM
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I appreciate your opinion. thanks
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thank you :)
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thank you :)
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I will read carefully, promise.
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Topic:
New freinds form Germany
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Halo wie geht es?
Id love to meet friends from Deutschland and deutsch sprechen auch. Danke! |
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Topic:
Lichtenstein
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Is there anyone from Lichtenstein?
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Topic:
Friends in Iceland ?
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Iceland is an amazing land I've heard and has fascinating landscapes...
How about people living in Iceland?? I don't know any and wish to know soon. |
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