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Mon 12/20/10 10:55 AM
angle

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Mon 12/20/10 10:54 AM
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Mon 12/20/10 10:54 AM
Biggest dream is being a trash can man..

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Mon 12/20/10 10:52 AM
sin is fun

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Mon 12/20/10 10:52 AM
You need a haircut?

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Sun 12/19/10 01:39 PM
game on

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Sun 12/19/10 01:32 PM
that is great

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Sun 12/19/10 01:32 PM
beast

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Sun 12/19/10 01:31 PM
ancient

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Sun 12/19/10 01:30 PM
error trial

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Sat 12/18/10 10:49 PM







hi to all


Honey, I think your record is stuck.
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So, young brother, you couldn't appear more needy if you tried!

And that *so* is pretty important if you want a girl, because in a room full of strangers the person that leaves alone is the needy one.

Everybody wants someone to love, but what you are saying behind your words is "gimme gimme gimme gimme" and all your looks, brilliant talents and cool attributes are drowned out by your whining.

I mean no disrespect and have been called blunt in many ways enough times to know there's some truth to it, but believe it or not, I'm not trying to put you down but to help you out, and right now you are your own worst enemy.

Be cool, make your presence known but act like you've got all the time in the world, because you do...

Don't spend your life looking for someone to live with; live your life and someone will come looking to share it with you.
thankz big bro i will always kept in mind your words so sweet of you so thankz once again big bro


Okay so you didn't like me calling you young brother, fair enough, but you are missing the point, I don't care what you do with my words. It is your life, live it however you want, but you asked why it was a problem you kept on shouting your need, and you got an answer.

no bro dont be angry i call u big bro becauz i dont have any big bro u r very nice so plz forgive me if i said something wrong or if my words hurts u a lot i m very sorry but plz dont be angry i respect the people like you u r the one of the nicesiet person in this chat room so dont be anry and again i m really very sorry so my good bro rply me soon i m waiting


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Sat 12/18/10 10:41 PM
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Sat 12/18/10 10:13 PM
Thanks for sharing Boop!

I think there is not really an answer to your question, from my point of view anyway. Life is what we make of it, with the sorrows, joys and everything in between.

Therefore I think the important thing is not why it happened, or whether it was meant to happen, but rather that you are getting out there again, living your life, following your dreams, extending your hand and opening your heart.

Don't get me wrong, to me trust is about as difficult as any thing, this I was taught in my childhood, and not the easy way either. Furthermore I have seen more evidence that people are untrustworthy than to the contrary.

I guess I've had two things going for me. One, I tend to think about things, and it made me realize that love to other adults only exists through trust. I like to say "Love is a bridge of trust connecting soul to soul" Without the trust the love has no real way to truly bond two people together... of course, if you think that lust is a kind of love, then this does not apply... but then again, even random intimacy requires a certain amount of trust.

So when I met my ex wife I made a conscious choice. I shall try to trust. It changed my life. I still have walls and defenses and I cut off and cut people down if I feel I have no other choice. And right now I am not trusting either, in the opening of my heart sense, because I am separated and still need time to find myself anew.

But one day I'll jump that fence again. Because trust is the only way to love, and love is the only way to live.

Just my 2cents, hope it gives...

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Sat 12/18/10 09:48 PM
Excellent!

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Sat 12/18/10 09:43 PM

I perved ya a while back Honey. I also tried to write you. If I may say, you have a monsterous list of restrictions on your mail box. May I suggest taking off those restrictions and only activating them IF something becomes a problem. Otherwise you are really limiting anyone from even attempting to communicate. Not everyone here will be a lover but, there are plenty of good genuine friends to be found here as well. I have met many of them in person.

I did find the guy who I think would be right up your alley (except for the "must live within 100 miles")....he has your exact lack of patience with the internet dating thang. You two seem absolutely sympotico in a great many reguards. (I ain't no expert but after chatting (or trying to) with both of you impatient kids, just sprang into my head that you two would be perfect)


You're so gentle Krupa flowerforyou

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Sat 12/18/10 09:19 PM
Merry Christmas you, and good luck with the exams!!

Hugsflowerforyou

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Sat 12/18/10 09:18 PM
Thanks for the laughs that was funny!

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Sat 12/18/10 08:56 PM
I wanna grab life and dance til I die, don't you think nothing comes to those that never takes a risk?

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Sat 12/18/10 08:52 PM
adventure

((( Sorry to hear that - but glad to have you back!! Always good with some company when perving the pretty ladies!!! laugh )))

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Sat 12/18/10 08:45 PM
ends

((( Hey Fanadtic drinks - haven't seen you around for a while. How you been bro? )))

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