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Tue 12/21/10 12:16 AM
Babes are per definition hot!! Or they are small and wear diapers in which case I hope their parents don't let them on online dating sites...


But actually when you wrote: Who do? You do! It just struck a cord and the song from the Labyrinth with Bowie started playing in my mind, and it goes (or it went in my head):

You remind me of the babe.
Who do?
You do!
Do what!
Remind me of the babe!
What babe?
The babe with the powers!

And we did, you and I :)

Who do?
You do!
Do what!
Remind me of the babe!


So I guess I was talking about the small bawling ones with diapers...

But you're still hotflowerforyou

Okay I'll stop my rambling now.-.-.

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Tue 12/21/10 12:11 AM
I
don't
play
by
the
rules


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Tue 12/21/10 12:06 AM
Edited by Himself1 on Tue 12/21/10 12:09 AM

I do like to listen, but I need to learn to step up, and speak up. It's not that I have nothing to say, its a matter of putting it out there. To voice my opinions and thoughts, to share them, rather than bottle them. It may seem like a small issue to those on this site, but it has caused some serious strain in my personal life. It sucks losing somebody because you failed to open up in their opinion. I need to figure out what I have to offer, and how to properly present these qualities.

Thanks for listening and being involved.



If I am getting you right, then I think there is nothing to do, but do it. I can't say I had a similar issue, but I did think at one time that it was difficult talking about difficult stuff (damn I should have been a scientist with that reasoningslaphead ). Anyway, to try to cut myself short, what I did was this: I'd ease my way into it, except it was rather awkward.

It could go something like...

Me: I want to say something.
Person: yes.
Me: Well there is something I've been thinking about.
etc etc

My point is, when you do open your mouth, don't think it should all come out neat and ordered like it is in your head, don't try to get it all out. Start small, one word at the time. Remember, use pauses, they are great for people to think about what you say, and for you to think about what to say next.
Don't be afraid to say, scratch that, I didn't mean it, or any such thing.

My guess is you're like to do things right and the first time too, but talking just isn't like that, at least not before after a lot of practice and still it's a game of cards to make it hit the spot. But that's not what's it is about. Just do it, a little bit at the time, and that will slowly get you used to it. It's like getting used to cold water, in the beginning you think your nuts are gonna fall off, but if you keep moving eventually it'll actually feel okay.

And don't mind rambling. I just did this post to prove that point...

drinker


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Mon 12/20/10 11:55 PM


Do what?

Remind me of the babe!

Who do?


You do!

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Mon 12/20/10 11:32 PM
Edited by Himself1 on Mon 12/20/10 11:32 PM
Do what?

Remind me of the babe!

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Mon 12/20/10 10:59 PM
Who need fake love?

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Mon 12/20/10 08:18 PM
yeast

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Mon 12/20/10 08:17 PM
online

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Mon 12/20/10 08:16 PM
emerge

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Mon 12/20/10 08:15 PM
Madrid, Spain

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Mon 12/20/10 08:14 PM
ratatouille

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Mon 12/20/10 08:12 PM
we're gone

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Mon 12/20/10 08:11 PM
pockets and holes

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Mon 12/20/10 08:10 PM
played false

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Mon 12/20/10 08:10 PM
beach


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Mon 12/20/10 08:09 PM
I could tell you but then I'd have to kill you, and you wouldn't want that now would you?


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Mon 12/20/10 07:23 PM
Love is the energy in which all life grows in health, beauty and strength.

Love is within us, as we are within love.



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Mon 12/20/10 04:38 PM
Good things come to those who wait

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Mon 12/20/10 10:56 AM
Yeah yeah

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Mon 12/20/10 10:55 AM
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