My wife left me for that reason, and we are ok, but I think it is a mistake. Marriage really can be for life.

I didn't realize it was happening and therefore didn't deal with it. She thought about it for a couple years and planned in the back ground until she left me one day and turned my world upside down.

Our family is fine, and i am fine, but i think two people that have had kids, married each other and are best friends, would be wiser to figure out how to fall back in love than to divorce and start over.

Divorce is survivable, but make no mistake it leaves life long wounds.

If she's your best friend, then tell her how you feel before you lose her one day, because it will be to late man.

Don't take things for granted, do some work around the house, get off the couch and get in shape, man up and act as if you were single and trying to attract the opposite sex. Go get a gym membership and work out, you will feel better and look better and more attractive to her. Really guy, you're going to have to do it soon anyway - cause she's leaving you.

Good Luck

Hi all, I am recently separated and would like to travel to somewhere warm for Christmas.

Maybe Key West?? or somewhere for singles.

I would love to find a travel companion so I don't ave to pay double the price for traveling single!

We would have to share a room to take advantage of the cost savings. If that isn't to weird for you and you want to get away and not be alone for the Holidays, let me know.

My name is Dean - and I am a normal stable guy.



Thanks

Dean

Thw world seems like a cruel place from a single perspective, but if fact there are many real and wonderful people. - yes even men.