Thank you, I know you are right. I have had to do some serious soul searching and am in the process of rediscoverying my passions in life which I hope to share with someone. For now I really dont mind just dating and having fun, I just kinda feel like a fish outa water...I dont know what is normal behavior for a single person when you start to have feelings for someone. Do I just hold it in, or tell them. Up till now I have held in all of my feelings, then the relationships end and I feel like I never got to really express myself

Hello community I need some advice. I am 26, about to turn 27 and am recently divorced. I have been single for 6 months and have had to radically change my life since the divorce which means new house in a different neighborhood, I got a new job in a different job market, I am not with my daughter who is 4 very often due to the seporation, I have had to make all new friends...basically my life has been like a tornado and I am finally settling down.

I am not used to being alone since my ex-wife and I were living together for six years, so I have decided to start dating and everything seems to be going really well then will just flat line.

I have already gone on dates with about a dozen women in the past 3 months, and have had one relationship form that I thought was meaningful, but it ended abruptly when I found out that she was not over her ex.

I have no problem meeting women and going out with them, I just am having a difficult time transitioning to girlfriend/boyfriend which is where I would like to be. I am looking for a somewhat consistant relationship with someone, atleast going out once a week and talking regularly. Is that so much to ask for? Do I need to give it more time? I have never really dated so this is all so new to me, I just want to know if I need to change my expectations for the time being...

Thanks