Gotta love TEDDYBEARS!!

THEY ARE SO HUGGABLE!!!

GOOD KISSERS TOO, I MIGHT ADD!!!



Dakotas55

Very true nerves....the sight will not remain FREE if u begin expanding
it..but i think it would be nice if we truely had a chat
room.........where we could meet and talk and see others talking nd
listen to them speak and laugh and all have fun in.. that would be
soooooooooooooooo nice..........

Dakotas55

I agree..........


BUD LIGHT!!

less filling

less calories...


DO I SOUND LIKE A COMMERCIAL? giggling!!!


( well when i was young i drank beer!!) not anymore..

3 beers for me and EVERYONE LOOKS GOOD!!

now thats badd ...............



its time to go home huh???



dakotas55

Oh my goodness....theres nothing better then pie....


apple crumb topped with vanilla ice cream
Cheesecake
pipin hot blueblerry
APPLE CRISP with fresh cold cream
coconut cream
Banana cream
Lemon Merange
strawberry pie YUMMY!!!

i can go on forever..........but u no what?
the scales tell me STOP WOMAN!! giggling so i guess i better!!

dakotas55

OK MILLS U READY TO SIT DOWN AND LISTEN?? OK LETS TALK!
FIrst of all, your a very nice looking gentleman, and IF U READ THAT
I SAID GENTLEMAN.....now....secondly, your open and honest, which is
good, most men are lacking in that category and so are women. Yes its
hard to find the right woman, butttt in this life, there is and do mean
this.....there is someone out there for EVERYONE.....we just have to
have FAITH!!! Dont frown at me ok?? I was raised in a sence that, untill
something happened, most things were not told to me, I had to be patient
and wait........but.....in waiting, my father died when i was 12 and my
mother died when i was 16. SO!!! I had to raise myself and deal with
issues i had never knew exsisted. It was hard, but I accomplished lots
of things, met alot of people and grew in street knowledge as well as
common sence.....yes i met men who were badd butts.......and i had my
share of ups and downs with them, buttttttttttttt i didnt let that get
the best of me. I strived to find someone just a tad bit better, and one
of whom if my grandmother were alive to this day WOULD BE SMILING and
saying OK NOW THATS THE ONE FOR YOU.....and u no what?? I have not found
him yet..why?? because most of the men I meet in there 50s , who have
been divorsed or widowed, sing me a song of pity, selishness, conciet or
just plain down right hard hearted I WANT TO BE BABIED
routines.........and u no what IM NOT BITING!!! Men like you are a
rarety.......sure we know ur out there but good god ur hard to find, and
most men who have been treated baddly arennt or dont become honest up
front with women, they tend to just play head games or just use most of
us GOOD WOMEN for there own selfish indulgance (SEXUAL GAMES) and that
in itself isnt what relationships should be based on........you have to
be BEST FREINDS FIRST......you have LEARN EACH OTHER......You have to
want to give and then give back and the same with the woman. BOTHE
GIVING.....you gotta be able to laugh cry stomp ur feet yell hugg dance
kiss pinch butts go places together and be comfortable in doing all that
or its just not gonna work.........if u get mad enough to want to hit
then buy some $10 dishes( wally world special,..giggling) go up in the
hills and chunck them at the treees.......(make sure u clean up the mess
afterwards) smiling... and or go and just YELL OUT LOAD all by
urself....it works wonders.......sometimes a good cry works......i know
it does for me......clears the mind and helps the heart grow
stronger.........but in general.......YOU WILL FIND A LADY WHO WILL
APPRECIATE YOU....BELEIVE ME U WILL........
Those bad boyz dont last long in fact they get the worst reps by being
BADD and u no what??? THEY MAKE THEEEE WORST LOVERS....
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..........dont give up........just hang in
there........how would u like to have just worked and come home, taken
care of your children and did what needed to be done for over 14 yrs??
and never never and i do mean never even think about another person in
ur life?? WELL???
wel guess what?? that was me........I had given up......but u no what??
I have peace within myself..........I have let the man upstairs deal out
my life and I just accept what he gives me openly and honestly.......oh
sure i cry at times. but u no...i do date.. not often but i
do........and when i find that the man is not what im interested
in......I just politely say...i am sorry but i think its best we just
dont see one another, your just not for me, i am sorry.........and if he
chosess to call me names. well then i was right and the whispering in my
ear from the man upstairs was RIGHT...........
Just dont be so quick to jump into a relationship....be somewhat
picky.........enjoy life, yet dont just look at each woman as THE RIGHT
ONE.......take ur time.....date....stop and listen.....hear what they
say ..watch them move....smile...and yet be
cautious...........then........things will happen to a degree better
then u ever imagined..............okay??

but do me a favor will you??? please??
look for guideance from the man upstairs....in prayer ok.?
U would be surprised at whats in store for you....i know i did and he
is amazing if u just have FAITH!!!....

and smile more.....u have a great smile .......smile...

one big hugggggggggggggggggggggggggggg!!!


Dakotas55

Friday the 13th actually went very well!! had a very nice day and it was
so sunny out...went shopping,,,,ate pizza with my younger son who came
home for the weekend from college...saw a football game and then watched
the new XMEN3 movie...so all in all was a very very stupendous
day........I think i spelled that incorrectly lol........oh god..lol

how was everyone elses day?? and weekend??

im looking forward to halloween..cant wait...


dakotas55

thats good..........& I am definitely built for COMFORT!
The speed somewhat left me when i turned 50...but in my mind, im
still ZOOOMING ALONG NICELY!!


Dakotas55

beverlyhillbillies=granny

granny=me

me = Hugger

hermit=beverlyhillbillies!!!

butter=buns

buns=flat

flat=tire

Are you serious ONTARIO??

You know MEN ARENT THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN GIVE GIFTS ON THE FIRST
DATE!!!
You should of been blushing, and smiling big time, let alone ur
heart should of been skipping a beat big time...
MY MY MY!! it makes one wonder whats wrong with YOU!!!!!

Women, good women, have feelings too and are very giving..
Men dont hold the record for giving flowers.....I have given a dozen red
roses to men in my time.....and let me tell u... they
blushed........even cryed ( and that to me is SEXY!) and then called me
up....said WOMAN COME HERE NOWWWWWWWWWWWW!!! and when they saw
me......took me in their arms......hugged me tightly and kissed
me...........and let me tell yah.......I almost fell on the
floor.............MAN OH MAN!! WHAT A FEELING THAT WAS.
I looked at them & said.....MY GOD UR GETTING FLOWERS MORE
OFTEN..........NOW........KISSS ME AGAIN!! ill tell u when to
STOP........and they just laughed........
NOW DONT U FEEL ASHAMED OF WHAT U SAID?? Id seriously have second
thoughts of ever dating you.........THAT WAS REALLY UNKIND OF YOU TO
SAY........

shame on youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!


dakotas55

Good morning ROBBER, long time no see! How have u been??
Love the pic still. wish i could see u better....COME CLOSER will
yah??


huggsssssss and have a simply wonderful day!!


Dakotas55

Same here.........

I was always told::


"A lady, A REAL LADY, never spits, she swallows!"


and gentleman,,,,,,,,I AM A LADY BY ALL MEANS!!!!


(winks!)

dakotas55

Theres just more to LOVE in big men..............so much more! they are
very sensual and sensitive.......I myself am not small by no means, not
even when I was born...giggling....but u no what........I LIKE MYSELF
JUST AS I AM.......and wouldnt change for no man.........hes gotta love
me.......I M MUST LOVEABLE..

ty ladies for your wonderful thoughts.....u all have made me
smile.......huggs to each and everyone of you......


BIG MEN LOOK OUT..............HERE WE COME!!!!



Dakotas 55

A woman after my own heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ty very much for that.........I totally agree....


I myself love em tall and big husky and teddybearish....

they have so much charm......good personalities and wonderfully
big hands for holding you and holding hands...

IM DARN PROUD TO BE any of them............darn proud!!!



the taller the bigger the better......


mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

makes my heart skippp beats...........giggling

Would I???

YOU BET!!! WHY U MIGHT ASKE?? well.......to me there all like
lumberjacks to me, they stand tall as a redwood, and have hearts as big
as the sky & have such a wonderful personality & giving & sharing is a
way of life to them, not a task. They truely are something go
behold.......and let me tell yah I DO HOLD EM!! (smiling)
Everyone is unique in gods eyes......we all have different shapes and
the color of our eyes and hair are all different..but...the man upstairs
made us all different and unque for a reason.........I look at everyone
from the inside out.........I look at the heart......the sixe shape or
figure doesnot matter to me...............the heart makes the person..
but let me tell u.........this

THIN MAYBE IN.......................BUT FATS WHERE ITS AT!!!!
giggling.......... so smile ladies.....

the best teddybear in the world can be thee most loving kind gentle
honest faitful giving and respectful man in the world and one u may
never have a chance to meet ever again.......just be nice......and
smile......they will appreciate it....

we all need lovin! dont you??


I love everyone....ty for listening!!!


huuggs my dear freinds!!


Dakotas55

Thankyou Nancy, Jen, Cherub, Herves! It was so nice to hear from all of
you. Ty Nancy you have eased my mind a great deal. I am so glad to hear
from all of you. Its not often anymore I get to come on line and read
all the cute discussions from each one who posts them. I miss that. But
I have not forgotten all of you and just thought Id stop by and say
hello and fill you all in on whats been happening in my life. I thankyou
all for your concern, it makes my heart happy. and guess what?? U ALL
GET ONE OF DAKOTAS HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS & let me tell yah...ONCE U
BEEN HUGGED BY ME...............You will have a PERMANENT SMILE on ur
face.....and maybe a tear or two....why?? because your my
freinds..........& Im blessed just to have met you and hear you speak to
me...TY VERY VERY MUCH..

Much love my dear freinds!

Dakotas55

Good Morning Everyone! How was everyones weekend? Are we all looking
forward to the upcoming holidays?? And is everyone ready for the fall to
turn into a winter wonderland??
I love the fall and winter seasons! Its truely the best time of the
year. I love to walk in the snow, gives me a chance to clear my head,
think of wonderful times ahead and see all the new ways the man
upstairs shows us his GREATNESS!
Take time out of your busy days, and give thanks now and again. I
havent been on much lately, my grandson has some serious ear problems,
and will be having surgery on the 23rd of this month of October.....hes
getting tubes put in his ears, along with his tonsils and adnoids are
being removed. They think his ear drum has been damaged,hes only 1yr
old....Too small for all of this.....so I am very worried. But being a
grandmother, My love and support are constant along with my many
prayers.
I miss you all and your goofy discussions and all your replies....Your
good people.....Lots of huggs for all of you!
Just to let you know...I MISS YAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!

take care one and all.........god bless and have a nice
day.............and REMEMBER.................A HUGG IS BUT AN ARMS
LENGTH AWAY!!!!!!!!!! ALWAYS!

Dakotas55

HEY ALPINE.........good evening! WOW! U Cant open up and say HI to a
woman u see on the street, in a hardware store, washing a car, sitting
in a theathre, shopping for shoes, clothing, food etc?? banking?? COME
ON NOW!!! UR GOOD LOOKING..........ARE U SHY???
Well let me enlighten you ok.........I go to the tanning boothes ( no
comments and laughter please) giggling.....as I pulled in to the parking
spot , I noticed this old antique car approaching.......I was in
awe....I got out of my car, started to approach the tanning salon
entrance, as I opened the door, I noticed the man exiting the
car.......WOW!!! younger ?? yes....did that matter?? NO..........why??
BECAUSE IM ME!!!
I looked at him and whistled and say WOW NICE SET OF BUNS U GOT
THERE............HE BLUSHED........i went in......paid my money
......asked for bed #11 ( its bigger, more room and closes more tightly)
the MAN FROWNED AT ME.....I laughed..and said OH DID U WANT BED 11?? yes
replied YEPPP.........I said TUFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF lol and wandered down the
lane......as my tanning session got finished, I Noticed he was still in
his...so i knocked on the door and said.......HEY CUTIE U GOTTA GET HERE
PRETTTTY EARLY TO BEAT ME TO BED 11.......i could hear him
chuckkling.........the girl upfront who took the money laughed and said
GOD UR NUTTS and i said u no.......lifes too short not to have fun or
make someeone laugh or giggle or even BLUSH...............after
that...........he and I used to see who got there first...........LOL
AND GUESS WHAT?? I WON!!!
but the point is........make the effort........open up..say hi.
smile.....make compliments.......open ur self up to those around
you..........ENJOY LIFE...............bars do not a nice lady you will
find.........BARS MEAN PICKUPS OR ONE NIGHTERS..'
next time u wash ur car or truck........and u see a pretty lady by
herself............watch if she needs help as her ...CAN I HELP
U.......or just walk up and say hi......dont be shy....
when ur sitting at a stop light......and see a pretty
lady..........LEAN OVER...........say...WOW U ARE PRETTY......and by the
way IM (insert name)........but be BOLD.........ur cute.............MAKE
URSELF AVAILABLE.....or do u need me to help ?? (giggling) Im a good
egg.......and have a very big heart..........ASK......!!
Take care kiddo..................your freind Dakotas55

Good evening JUSTMEEH!! MY GOODNESS! what on earth...listen young lady,
your not ugly by no means!! You have a beautiful face and I bet u have a
wonderful personality as well. You know kiddo, men who look at women
from the outside in, miss alot. They tend to look for the outer beauty
when the inner beauty is so much more to behold. Never fear, there is
someone out there just for YOU.....be patient. Dont hurry, you have all
the time in the world, enjoy life, be happy and content with yourself
and have some fun. If a gentleman really cares for you, the outward
appearance is not what he will be seeking, he will be seeking YOUR
HEART. Thats all that really matters in life, ones HEART!! Im by means
no CINDERELLA, but let me tell you this, I am a single mother, DARN
PROUD OF IT and by no means allow men to confront me with the attitude
that im NOT GOOD ENOUGH becasue im not RACHEL WELCH or REESE
WITHERSPOON.......IM JUST ME...........if they like me they like me for
the person I am inside and the good, kind and loving heart I behold deep
within me.......besides.......life is too short to be USED AND ABUSED by
men who just want those perfect women.........we all have
flaws........god made us all uniquely different......in his eyes we are
all BEAUTIFUL...........so sit back.........enjoy life.......SMILE MORE
OFTEN........give a hugg to those around you that need one and
watch..........I BET U GET PLENTY OF HUGGS BACK IN RETURN...........and
guess what??? HERES ONE FROM
MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE................Im gonna be the
first.................and IM honored if u called me FREIND!

(((((((((((((((((((JUSTMEEH)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

now..........dont u feel better??? I know I do!! (smiling)