From personal experience, I can honestly say I know EXACTLY what you're going through. Your escenario (minus the kids) is what happened to me three years ago(I had been married for 15 years at the time). I like the way you put it, "love being with each other, but not in LOVE". Gone was the I-can't-wait-to-get-home to feeling which I once felt years back. I tried, I really did, to "spark" things up, but it just didn't last. The roommate status got old and three years later, we called it quits. I've been divorced almost six months, and though I'm not into any serious relationship yet (not in a hurry either), I'm absolutely loving it!!! It's a new lease on life. I'm not advocating divorce or anything, but perhaps a temporary separation may work; who knows. I don't know what advise to give you regarding the children, bt whatever you decide, I wish you the best.

Hello, my name is Nina and have just arrived to Seoul from North Carolina (military). I would like to meet someone to hang out with on the weekends to do some sightseeing and experience the Korean culture. I'm not necessarily looking for a local national, but prefer someone who speaks English and/or knows the area well enough so we don't get lost. But just in case you're new to the area (like me), perhaps we can still get together and learn the area using a map