Have a good time 4fun. See ya when you return.

Thanks Kevin. Not the way I meant it. What I meant is "foreplay" does
not have to be a physical act in my book.

Love it. Cuddling should be the first word of "foreplay". Doesn't and
shouldn't always lead to lovemaking and that doesn't matter. Cuddling is
a nice silent way to show love and feel it the way it should be.

It's all good. The only time I get really "out of fun" is when people
attack other's religious or personal views. That's NOT fun. That is
disrespect and the "fun" factor is blown. The "size of weiner one" was
funny.

For the most part. Not too hard when you are strapped for cash and
politics are the way they are in this country. It will be a great
holiday though so I hope everyone has a great one. Do what you can with
what you've got and enjoy the company of family and friends.

Just treat others the way I wish to be treated. I don't need a holiday
in order to do that and I wish people would behave the way they do
around the "holidays" throughout the year. The world would be a much
better place. Blessed be and may everyone have a great holiday season -
no matter how you follow it. )0(

Cheating is always wrong and damages both sides. The cheaters self
respect (if they are not sociopathic) and the cheated on's self respect
as well. Violates so many parts of the psyche that it should NEVER be
done-EVER.
If you want to cheat then leave the relationship bc something is wrong
and it needs to end anyways.

By the way Kay, If you truely love someone there should be no need to
hide the fact you are with them and if you are embarrassed about
anything with them then you would have to examine your definition of the
word love.

NEVER. Secrecy means that there is something WRONG with it. If I ever
would have gotten that feeling I would "run to the hills" as fast as I
could. I love who I am with now and I am prepared to fight anyone that
has a problem with it. Intelligence will always overcome might. Used to
be that people would have to keep secret that they were of different
races but folks it's time to evolve.Will NEVER hide anything from her,
about her, or the fact that she and I are together.

EXACTLY!!!!!!!

You know, someone like Larry The Cable Guy would be good. We need to get
back to grass roots politics where even someone that is poor can run and
have a real chance. We should ban all of the special interest
fundraising, the political fundraisers that totally make it so the
poorer of our society cannot afford it, ban million dollar commercials
that only serve to slant an opponent instead of getting issues out
there, etc., etc.
Is it any wonder that only 1% of our nation holds the majority of the
wealth? The rich continue to get richer while the poor continue getting
poorer. Sociological fact folks. While Larry may be wealthy now from his
comedy, he started out from modest means and I don't think he has
forgotten his roots. That is what we need. We definitely DON'T need the
wife of an impeached President in that office. She can't be that
intelligent if she is still with Bill. LOL

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!! Everything that happens in life affects your
psychological state of mind. The trick is not to let some dipshit that
is power hungry control your belief system through manipulation and
brain washing. Some of the heads of many of the organized religions are
very adept at doing this and lost touch with what was once the real
belief system of the faith. Too many money grubbing idiots in power in
many of the "organized" faiths. That applies to both Christian and Pagan
faiths folks.

If you enter the sexual relationship part you risk losing them all in
dating and as friends, not to mention that you night get something that
penicillin nor any other conventional medication can cure. Use your head
on this. The one I know you have in your head and not the one in the
head of your.........

Deep is not the word. Holy crap, a person could write a book on this
subject. Oh yah. Many have already. Not trying to be a smartass here
Morena. Reincarnation does not guarantee that you will find those you
love or your soul mate in each and every incarnation. The probability is
high in my belief that you will. I don't think this question will EVER
be answered to anyones absolute liking but maybe it's not supposed to
be? Wish I could help. bmustang cited a work by Edward Cayce. Some of
his writings are just dribble but some have some merit so it's not nad
advice overall.

And by the way Rambill, my goal as a Wiccan is not to discredit the
bible. We KNOW that Jesus Christ was on this earth. We simply disagree
that he is the son of a living God. He was, however, a wise teacher and
that I will never dispute. The bible has a great deal of good in it as
does the torah, the koran, and many, many, other publications that are
out there.

Arrogance gets you no-where Rambill. I am glad you have your sabbath but
on the "real Lords" day? Mine is as real to me as yours is to you. Don't
be a pompas ass about it. We have sabbaths as well but they are
pronounces sabats. To each their own.

Sorry Rambill. It's ALL religion my friend. No matter HOW you look at
it. Organized or not organized - it just is.

Would love to see the one alledgedly written with Jesus' own hand in
ARAMEIC. That is the one all of the others have been derivated from
Rambill. Sorry - must once again disagree with your theological
perspective. Of course all those years of college were a waste of time
for me - right? I did major in Sociology of Religion.

No disrespect intended Rambill but the horse is dead. Go ahead and bury
it.

Every relationship IS different. It is, however, normal at different
points to want time to oneself off and on. Generally in the beginning it
takes a pry bar to get people apart but over time they tend to fall into
a comfort zone. Life is full of interruptions and such and you have to
strike a balance. Drifting apart is different than just "needing space".
If there is a happy balance all is fine but if the "need of space" takes
too much emphasis then the people tend to drift apart and lose touch.
Even in a marriage some experts recommend a once a week date, just the
husband and wife, without the kids. It allows the couple to stay in
touch and on the same page in this crazy thing they call life.