Ya she seems very needy , she tells me im the first person she would like to go out with. Thankfully she stop knocking at my door when i told her my parents didn't like her. So the only time im bother by her is when im at work or getting home from work.

My job is crappy , i think if I quit i will stop being bother by her?

you are right it does, i guess i'll ask my friend's sister to pretend. i think she will ease off because she does not seem that crazy ,just a bit persistent.

I'm currently trying to get in the navy and should be shipping out in a couple of months , so i do not want to be blunt or to direct with her like telling her family (which is a good idea without having to get the police involved) because I want to have a good working environment.

Hopefully I'll be moving away soon so I do not want get her in trouble. I have said many things like she is not my type of girl, my parents doesn't like her and that I'll be joining the navy soon to calm her down. And I really do believe that if I show her that I have found a girlfriend her obsession will become nothing more then a crush.

Maybe I'm taking this to lightly? or my thinking of getting a girlfriend to get her off me is to wishful?

Ya, already told her that then she said lets be friends and I told her I don't want to be friends with someone who keeps bothering me. Of course I said it in a friendly way because we are still coworkers. I believe that she just does not get it that I do not want to go out with her.

She is 19 yr old and thin so... that make her ok looking but look doesn't really matter because i am not interested in dating at the moment and she is simply not my type of girl. However, if you think by dating her once and saying that we do not fit would get her to ease off would work, then I would do it. My friends suggested me to do that but somehow I just see the situation would get worse.

We are still on friendly terms i don't that a restraining order is necessary. I would like to keep work there and live at my home, quitting and moving seems to drastic for just a small and trifling matter.

I believe that if I get a girlfriend she will stop being so persistent?

Hello people, here's my story. I've been working at a store near my house for a month , a new girl starts working there and girl trouble starts for me. One morning she shows up at the store at 5 am , on her day off and she just stood outside staring at me I ask "what's sup" she said "nothing". I went around cleaning the store 10 minutes later she was still there when I ask what's sup again she she would tell me when i got of work.

I knew something was not right then but I was not prepared for it i did not think it would happen to an ugly guy like me. She asked me if i have a girlfriend so stupidly I said no and now she is pursuing me asking me to date her I am honor to be ask out by a girl but sadly i am not interested in her or having a relationship at this point.

On the same day she asked me out I told her i was not interested and she went home a few hours later she shows up at my house. I thought she understood that I did not want to go out with her so I let her in my house since we knew each other , which turn out to be another stupid decision because all she did was stare at me and ask me why we couldn't be together, and i told her the same reason as before then she keep touching ,hugging ,almost groping me. That day I really test my merits as to hold much I could keep it in my pants because we were alone.

So, now she comes by my house everyday or waits for me when I get off work asking me to go out with her.Lucky she is not so forthcoming as before after I told her i am only interested in females who are in my culture which is Vietnamese. This is not a serious situation where I would call her a stalker because she is just a young 19 yr old girl with a crush , I guess this is a type of puppy love.

And now if anyone has advice on how to handle this situation I would greatly appreciate it. Or if a Vietnamese girl who lives in Philly pretends to be my gf i think she would stop pursuing? All comments welcome, even ones that berate me.