Well it's workin'! You have my attention! Mmmmmm

I have no desire to stay single, I love being in a committed relationship. I prefer to make love to someone I'm actually in love with, but if I don't find someone special soon I may just participate in some random boinking. Two months without is just too long!

Rondoobie is my name, Ronda, combined with the Good-Do-Bee from the Romper Room show, my aunt started calling me that when I was 2 or 3. Then that was shortened to Doobie.
Dee-da-Dee, my ex and his brother gave me that one when somebody descibed me as bubbly-ditzy.
Da or Duh, in my family. I would so frequently chastise my self that one day my 3 yr old nephew trying to get my attention tugged at my shirt and called me Aunt Duh and it stuck since it is the end of my given name. And my sister is Becky-Boo or just Boo, together we are Boo-Da, wise? No, we're both bubbly-ditzy.
Fish from a select group of friends from high school, but I'm not going there! and NO it had nothing to do with a smell! lol
Rondie from my ex-brother-in-law.
And one good friend has always called me Sweetie.

Yeah, I read about meetup on here last week and it sounded really interesting, unfortunately once I signed up I found that the only group locally that is actually active is the Tea Party Political Activists and politics isn't my thing. Have to wonder if it would be any better in PA than Indiana, maybe if you're located in or near a big city. Hope you have better luck there than I did.

Yep, and you're one of them, but I still say you don't need toast with biscuits and gravy!

Hi! I've actually been enjoying this site for 5 or 6 weeks already and so many of you have been so sweet and supportive to me I just have to say thank you and let you know that things are getting better for me. Now that I finally have a picture up I felt like I should say hi and here I am.

I'm sorry, I think you misunderstood me. I'm not talking about having to take care of someone. I'm saying that I enjoy being considerate of the needs and desires of a man I'm in love with. I anticipate his needs and find true joy in fulfilling those needs without having to be asked. I listen to those little side comments that he makes about the things he likes and love surprising him with them later. I do not want a one sided relationship, I give as I want to recieve. I love being with a man who appreciates all I have to give physically and emotionally and does the same for me. I'd much rather be with a guy who occasionally surprises me with a cd because he heard me say I love a song, for instance, than to be with a guy who brings me flowers every payday out of habit which eventually feels like an obligation. When a couple is in love they listen to each other and want to make sure all of the other's needs are met, that's what caring for each other is all about. Love is that you want to do it, not that you have to do it.

Single, but I'd rather be taken

I love the Krasl Art Fair in St Joseph. Anybody want to hang out and see all there is to see with me on July 11th?

I did heard that frog in my head as I read it! LOL!

I would like a visit from those elves in the story about the little shoe maker. How cool would it be to wake up to the whole house sparkling clean!

Look! There I am! Thank you, Eileen! That was such a sweet and generous thing for you to take your time to do for me! May you be rewarded for your kindness ten fold!!!

I bet I'd get more responses too, if I could post a picture, unfortunately I don't have that option at this point since I'm on my mobile phone and don't have a computer. It sucks to be the working poor. I have a friend willing to help me out with this but our schedules haven't worked out to allow it yet. I promise I'm not lying to or scamming anybody even if I don't have any pix.

Yes, close to 6 years. Hooray! 3 weeks vacation pay!

Welcome! Nice heading

Welcome! Nice heading

Strong sexual innuendos in a name do steer me in the other direction, as myka said it's a sure sign of immaturity. I don't mind the sweet suggestions of love or cuddling or the like.
I have been misunderstood more than once with my moniker, the doobie isn't a drug reference. My name is Ronda and my aunt started calling me Rondoobie when I was 2 watching Romper Room. Anybody else remember the Good-Do-Bee? And I was born in 69 but have learned not to include that as part of my screen name.

yep, I've developed a crush! I find myself excited every time I see he's posted something.

So we're not giving the most popular answers here, but I have to agree with you. I don't like being single. I'm fully functional, go to work everyday, pay my bills, feed my critters, take care of all my responsibilties, I've even come out of my breakup funk enough to go out on the weekends and have some fun. But I get the most joy in my life from giving to and taking care of a good man. I love cooking him a homemade meal and seeing him enjoy it. I love taking off his work boots and washing his sore old feet and watching his eyes roll back in his head as I rub them with lotion and make him feel better. I love running into a t-shirt while I'm out shopping and bringing it home to him because it just fits his personality. I love finding just the right presents and taking the time to wrap them up real pretty and hiding them until that special occasion.
I know exactly what you mean by feeling unbalanced and like life is one dimentional without someone to take care of that also wants to do the same for you.
Being in a good relationship means you have someone to make beautiful memories with and you will comfort each other when life is rough. It's the anticipation of seeing each other everyday after work. It's sexual satisfaction and falling asleep in the arms of someone you can't wait to see again in the morning.

This is sad but true, I've never really dated at all, always seem to go straight to living with guys. I love to be held at night and I'm such a giver that once they come to my place they never go home and the next thing I know all of their stuff is here. Then they tell me a few years down the road that they just can't give as much back to me so it's unfair for them to stay. You don't know how many times I've heard that I'm the perfect girl... for somebody else.
No, I've never skipped out on a date.