I prefer talking to people that have pictures. It gives me a real idea
of who the person is. Mainly because you never know what they are
thinking because you can't see their eyes in person. Sometimes the
person is really nice, but they look a little scary. I mean a few guys I
looked at really looked like they would be pedofiles or something creepy
like that. Other times you think "oh he's so cute" I have to tell him.
You know there is more likely to be magic there if others knew what you
look like. Like the saying goes. I pictures worth a thousand words.

Me too looking for a good Arizona man 26-37

If you have to be with someone only because they look a certain way. I
think that is shallow. There are plenty of beautiful people out there
that are overlooked because they don't fit a certain mold. I always
accept people the way they are first. When they prove me otherwise I'm
out. Everyone has their own opinion & that's fine. Sharing is how we
learn about others. There needs to be more than just a face or a body.
Personallity sometimes comes through more & that can make a person more
beautiful to me. The wrinkles come & the grey hairs appear weight always
going up & down. The person inside is who the person really is!

It's more fun to think of getting into trouble. It's the challenge, but
when it comes to settling down for good they go back to the good ol'
boys because they know they will be there always.

I know women that have & are still married several years later & very
happy

I personally am a very happy person. I always have & always will be. I
say hi to everyone & wave to people as I drive down the street. If those
ladies look at you wrong to bad for them. They have a chip on their
shoulder. Forget them! Chivalry will never die! Be the happiest & best
person you can be. I did a personal study while I was at High school. I
know a long time ago. Anyway I smiled to a few people I would walk past
in the hallway. At first they didn't even look at me. I would say hi &
smile my biggest smile. After awhile of doing this I noticed some poeple
responded to me & then started to say hi to me back. One person even
told me they looked forward to my hellos. It was a great feeling to know
I could make someone else feel good.

Like brandie said we are just figuring out what the past was so we may
know how the future could be. Haven't you ever heard history repeats
it's self? If you cheated on someone most likely it will happen again to
the next person you're with. Most especially women want to know if you
have anything they don't want to catch. If you like hookers maybe she
doesn't want to be sleeping with your ass.

I feel like if you aren't comfortable with your past you're less likely
to share it others. Mainly because you feel guilty about it. You need to
work that out for yourself. Most poeple fear other peoples reaction to
us like they are all being judged. Most people I've learned in my life
just accept you for you & if they judge you why would you even want to
be with that person?!

Oh the terrible webs we weave. I hope you can keep them all straight.
Like someone said prior- us women seem to find out sooner or later
anyway. Just have fun & see where they go.

I say if you want to turn someone down you just be polite & say I'm not
interested, but thanky you. If you want to tear someone down I think you
know how it goes.

I'm one of the few good girls left although a lot of the good guys left
because they decided they wanted a trophy wife instead of a reliable
trustworthy one.

Thus guy sounds like bad news to me. Dump him he just wants sex & then
leave you. Or he always wants just sex from you when he can get away
from his other woman. Baby you are the other woman. He's not worth it &
you are way better than that.

That's such a big accomplishment! Congrats! Keep up the great work