lisen people... i need some advice an i kinda need it now :S well i
really like this guy hes always tellin me how beautiful i am and what
not how he wants to c me and shit but it never happens.... weve almost
dated on a couple occassions but at the last moment he ends up with a gf
:( he tells me hell call me in a hour and he never does hes suppost to
be coming down to c me next week do u think hes only coming here to get
some or is he really interested in me? theres more to our story i no so
far he looks like shit but when we talk he talks to me like im angel i
just dunno what to do :( plz help me

Just tell the guy to kick rocks. Make him do the chasing you shouldn't
have to do the chasing. If he wants it let him come find it.

Your a side girl for him. Yes, he wants you when he can GET to you.
Hes not "into you" the way you want him to be. He would have sex with
you though, but not a relationship. Id move on unless of course your
into that kind of relationship. :)

I've been through that exact same thing before from the other side..
theres nothing waiting for you at the end of this tunnel (at least
nothing serious), I can promise you that.. there are some people who
will string you on as long as they possibly can, and this sound like one
of those situations to me.. the way it usually works, is one day the
shit will hit the fan in their world, and thats when you'll see them
coming back around, and then when its all back together again, you'll be
right back where you are now..

but, as ruewen said, if you can be cool with the relationship between
you two being at a friends with bennefits level, then you can keep that
going, but I would probably tell him to cut the sweet talk crap out but,
thats just me

You deserve better...Tell him one last thing" Those dreams move on if
you wait too long "... Then say ciao Baby...
Good luck..

i think the guy is just out for a piece of ass otherwise he would have
tried alot harder to see you if you ask me he isnt worth the effort

HONESTLY I THINK IF HE DOES COME TO SEE YOU HE IS JUST DOING IT TO GET
LAID JUST FROM THE MESSAGE YOU HAVE LEFT HERE.

BACK UP AND LEAVE IT ALONE, TELL HIM WERE TO STICK AND GO FIND SOME
HOOKER/SLUT CAUSE YOUR NOT ONE AND THAT YOU HAVE TO MUCH RESPECT FOR
YOURSELF.

SO STAND UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM WERE THE HELL TO STICK IT.

Move on to a better relationship. Your just being used by him. Look at
what is going on with HIM and trust your feelings ! If this felt good
to you , you wouldn't be asking for help !

Some people like to have a f___ budy and they make it known up front.
But he is playing on your feelings and it seems by what your saying,
your looking for a relationship. Your not going to find it whith him.

He is playing you ! I'm sure you can find a better guy !

It sounds to me like he is just telling you what you want to hear. It
sounds very obvious that you seem alot more instrested in him than he
does you. This 'relationship' of yours is in the danger zone right now.
Maybe you need to take a couple of steps back and reevalueate this whole
thing. Then maybe it will help you make a better decision on what you
need to do. He may speak to you like he's mr. right, but what are his
actions? And what speaks louder?

Well Tracy

It doesn't seem as though he is sincere with you. A mans word is his
bond. After telling something once and not beiong able to do it. The
second arrangements that he makes with you should be cautious considered
on his part because he should know that a pretty women like you may get
turned off. Looking at your photo you do apppear to be very sexy as
well. I know how it is to be lifted up and then let down. So serious
think about what I had wrote to you on this topic. If you need further
discussion on this matter or any e-mail if you like.

Sincerely,

Bigfella247

You know what? I think the guy is taking you for granted! Seriously, and
I'd advice you to get out of this as soon as possible, before he uses
you for something wrong. You know you are truly, madly and deeply in
love with him, and thus he's taking an advantage of that by being
insincere to you, 'coz he knows whatever he does, eventually you are
going to accept him.

Best of Luck!

to be honest he just wants some.the question is are you going to be his
ho and booty call or a real woman and tell him to dume on u( which means
go ------yourself

well as a man I can tell you most men are scum. He sounds alot like a
con artist if you ask me. I know alot of men that do this to women such
as yourself. I hate it those guys make me sick. He is probibly just
wanting to get some. Now this may or may not be a bad thing if a one
night stand i what you want. I don't think that is. Just talk to him
and say you ain't gettin none. See what happens. If he still wants to
see you stick to that rule NO SEX for at least 3 dates

That is my advise

He is just telling you what you want to hear. Dump him quick and get on
with your life. You will be better off in the long run. There are other
nice guys out there who would treat you better.

the other thing is what do your friends think of him?
as you're locked into the situation, you might not be able to view
things clearly.
find a trusted friend, lay out the situation and see what they say.

Good advice Andrew !

hey everyone... i just want to thank you all for all your great advice
im still not absolutly sure on what to do. i know im DUMB! lol hes
suppost to come visit me on wednesday so im going to make my decision on
that if he doesnt show up im going to tell him to go f#@* himself :D and
if he does well it seems like he has a lot of things he needs to be
making up to me well see how things go i guess

I really don't like, let alone trust person(m or f) who cannot keep
their word. supposed to call? didn't? go to .....

Stay with us for help. I'm sure something or someone will
start to make sense for you change what your doing.

Its simple really............He's NOT THAT INTO U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!