You said he wasn't giving you what you needed and you want him to change his mind?
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I thought maybe while we were apart...he woulde realize what he gave up and thus want want what I want.

You just said he wasn't giving you what you needed.
So are you just looking for an ego boost? Something to tell you you weren't wasting the time you spent with him? Something to tell you it wasn't your fault? What?

I posed a similar question in reverse yesterday. It's nice to get some justification that this happens! As being the so call jerk i can tell you how I felt. I want to have feelings and fall in love, but love escapes me! I see it as a real dilema because women will often offer sex before love and i have a hard time saying no to the sex and an even harder time falling in love! So when the woman falls in love with me I end up being the bad guy and it trully makes me feel bad. I mean it takes time to devolop feelings such as love right? Yet sex always seems to come before love so what do you do? Do you refuse the sex? Will I someday love them? I think the answers people have given you are simplified to the point of dishonesty! Simply put I don't think two people can get into a relationship without risking someone lacking true love and hurt feelings coming from it. So the question i would ask is what are his intentions and barring love itself "because it can't be manufactured" could he see you long term?

Well seeing that I do not have my picture up yet (new member), I think I can break man law and let you in on the little secret that men do not want women to know. We do have a soft side, and we do want to feel needed just like woman do, however the way we feel needed/wanted tends to be more physical in nature. So if you think that he is just "booty callin" its up to you to decide if that is all you want or if you want more. Believe it or not, you are in the drivers seat on this one. Good luck!

You "wanted more than he could give".

So what makes you think he is going to give you what you want now?

Or are you just looking for a companion for the holidays?

Thank God I am a lesbian and don't have to put up with men!

So sorry ...here a hug..I know thats not what you wanted to hear.(((((hugs)))) you deserve so much better!

Yes!! run run run... he's couldn't give more then, it's not going to change...he's in a dry spell..and knows you had feelings... he's playing on that....Run run run...

so he won't buy the cow

but you're still giving him free milk?

No thanks. There's enough of that crap going on around here as it is.

and let me be clear. I don't care what kind of car he drives. I couldn't care less if it's a cavillere or a BMW. As long as he has one and has a license. I literally can't be responsible for having to pick him up all the time. Nor do I expect him to pick me up all the time either.