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Topic: when your dating a man or women/ Did you ever lie to them
mendy2's photo
Wed 11/25/09 03:31 PM
Yes If told a little white lie
like, Oh I love your new dog

laughsandgiggles's photo
Wed 11/25/09 03:37 PM
I am a HORRIBLE liar!! you can see if all over my face so nope- i have never lied- not even the little white one

I will just not say anything when a question like that is asked lol

no photo
Wed 11/25/09 04:18 PM
no

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Wed 11/25/09 04:27 PM
in my opinion, to lie to a person or not does not depends on right or wrong but depends of how much the target can handle.

- say: "i love your new dog" vs "your dog is butt ugly"

a doctor tells his patient

- "you're doing great, you'll get better soon"
vs
- "you'll be dead in a month"

if it's harmless and it makes people feel better then it's not a lie.




AGoodGuy1026's photo
Wed 11/25/09 04:31 PM

in my opinion, to lie to a person or not does not depends on right or wrong but depends of how much the target can handle.

- say: "i love your new dog" vs "your dog is butt ugly"

a doctor tells his patient

- "you're doing great, you'll get better soon"
vs
- "you'll be dead in a month"

if it's harmless and it makes people feel better then it's not a lie.






I don't agree....

No, if they don't like ME - then why try?...

$.02 drinker

Vietscouty's photo
Wed 11/25/09 06:09 PM
There's no point of me lying. I was be straight forward. If you ask me if you look fat, I would say yes. I'm sorry but I'm a natural A-HOLE by the Army lifestyle. LOL!

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Wed 11/25/09 06:30 PM
Nope i don't beat around the bush, I'm very upfront and honest. If i have something to say, I will say so directly. No lies.

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/25/09 06:32 PM
Not that I can remember, Im of the belief that if I dont wish to say something, I just remain silent, instead of lying about it. Plenty have gotten upset about me not answering, but none can say I lied.

mry's photo
Wed 11/25/09 06:38 PM
YESSSS of course. Lots of times. Its only bad when do do it in a bad way. If you lie not to hurt someones feelings its ok with me. You can all lie a little to me! bigsmile Yeah yeah...tell me my hair is pretty!

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 11/25/09 06:54 PM

Yes If told a little white lie
like, Oh I love your new dog


I know a lot of people think it is okay. I also will admit I might be a bit odd on this, since I take Lying so seriously, when a person lies to me over something so small that it doesn't really matter it erodes the whole foundation of the relationship. I can't deal with it, after a few of these I walk away.

I would rather hear, no I really don't like your dog than have someone act like they do since I can tell if a person is genuine or not.

I would rather hear GAWD woman do you plan on wearing that outfit out in public. That to hear You look great.

I always will take the truth over any deception any day.

no photo
Wed 11/25/09 06:56 PM
Yes I'm only 5'10 with my boots on. So I'm not really tall!!

cherie091279's photo
Wed 11/25/09 07:06 PM
Nope...I'm too honest to lie and I expect the same in return.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 11/25/09 07:11 PM
Sure I did

I'm human!!!

Hate to hurt someone

Sometimes it worked. Sometimes notbigsmile


I'm only human!:heart:

mendy2's photo
Wed 11/25/09 07:43 PM
I agree, if I want my man to love me as I do him
I may havt to say---I love visting your family
because I know he dont want to vist mind. lol
But you do it to please!

Updawg's photo
Wed 11/25/09 07:46 PM
I suppose in someway, maybe

freeonthree's photo
Wed 11/25/09 08:36 PM
No way ! What they see is what they get, period smokin

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Wed 11/25/09 08:43 PM
Nothing is worth a lie. Lies always come back and bit you in the tush!

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 11/25/09 08:47 PM
No, and that's actually surprising to some. The truth is more intruiging then the lies to a point, that they start to question if I'm doing nothing but lying. It's really sad though..we got to this point.

no photo
Wed 11/25/09 11:52 PM
"did you ever?"

When I was much younger and just wanted to score.. hell yes!
Whatever I had to say to get some.

Now that I have grown and matured,
NO!!
Take me as I am or move on.


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Thu 11/26/09 12:06 AM
:angry: LIES destroy,,,,,,,,little,,,,,big,,,,,

They kill a heart,,,,then the mind,,finally, the spirit.


I LIVE,,,,,,see that? I >LIVE< to be completely honest....



because NOT to be,,,,,,,is like,,,,,WHY?,,,,wink.

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