Why models? Why not post an ordinary woman with grey hair? It's okay to be grey, but you should put on tons of make-up and look like a beauty queen?

Hmmm, well like sybar said, it's a personal preference. And while I respect your right to your own preference, I disagree with you!

Just because someone has grey hair, it does not mean they have maturity. Your equating it to being like a badge to be worn. Badges are earned through actions and honorable performance, not due to the color of our hair, eyes, etc. What about those who never grey? Does that mean that they never reach maturity?

And as far as hair coloring goes, I have never had a man tell me my hair smells funny, quite the opposite actually.

I for one would not want someone admiring me or thinking highly of me because I have grey hair. I actually do have grey hair, but I color it. Not because I'm ashamed of it, or because I think it makes me look old. I do it because it's my choice to and I like having brown hair.

But this is just my opinion, you have a right to your own.

Good luck in your search.

Topic: looking for old man

Here you go:



By the way, as I write this, your Mingle2 profile says that you are a man looking for woman for dating.

I almost didn't make it

Dating is fun at any age.
It's not how old you are.. it's how old you feel.
If you feel like a pimply faced kid again, that's wonderful.
Go for it and may the force be with ya.

I just want to remind you that there are some bad people in the
internet who might want to take advantage of you. Keep your
guards up all the time. It's a jungle out there.

Welcome to Mingle2
and good luck in your search

Not that I'm an expert or anything, but I have some advice to all the men out there who might be wondering why they don't get a response for the women they message. 1. Give your marital status. If you don't the woman will probably assume that your either married or separated and believe it or not, most women to looking to meet someone online don't want to date men who are married or separated. 2. List your interests. Saying I'll tell you later says you either don't have any interests, you don't want to mention them or you can't take the time to list them. Listing your interests will give the woman something to talk about if she wants to have a conversation with you. 3 Don't just say Hi. I know it's hard to put your self out there, but look at the woman's interests and ask her a question. If she says she likes to travel in her profile, ask her if she's done any traveling lately etc. Just saying hi makes it very difficult for either of you to start any sort of conversation. And this is just my pet peeve - you've never met me so do not call me sweetie or honey I can't think of a bigger turn off - plus it sounds really condescending. Thanks for listening.

Finding love over 50 is more than possible. Psychologically and emotionally it can be fairly stable, depending on realistic expectations and an awareness of the human condition. Love is possible at any age.

I think a little karma is in the mix, I don't believe in the saying love at first sight especially at my age. Soul mates, just my opinion, are wondering souls, you might even pass one another at the mall or going down the street, or pulled up to a traffic light and looked over to the person at the light next to you. I think if I see my soul mate I would recognize her and approach straight up. Excuse me mam, and ask the question about soul mates, I know it sounds a little weird but....etc. You never know till you check out your feelings with another.

You hired a professional matchmaker? Oh wow, that is serious, navy man.
Are you also trying paid dating sites? Those might be worth your money.

Join us in the forums and meet the community... most of us are fun and friendly. Make friends while you're looking.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search


.... oooooh I forgot to mention, I suggest not including beautiful women pics in your profile.... might scare off women not so beautiful... but hey, it's your call.


Cheers

I put those pics there as a grey hair standard as to what I think is attractive and beautiful to me anyway. I do not look at it as a fetish, I look at the person as they really are, with no hair die, trying to be what they are and it is earned not covered up, sort of like a badge of honor. I will be glad to explain if anyone ask, I myself am graying and proud of it.