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Spidercmb:

I certainly understand what you are saying. You will note that I gave no opinion of John Edwards as I have my own belief on him, but if you read between the lines I think you'll get it.

Knoxman:

Totally agree. I do the same exact thing in my show. And like Criss tell people up front it is a fake, a fraud. There are a few techniques used in cold readings that are very convincing. Of course I won't reveal them...lol. People do need to be weary of the trickery out there. I do think it is a real shame when people use it to an advantage point and that is the point I was hoping to make.

I was trying to stay bias on this subject. I guess what I am really saying is that everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion and seeking the aid of a psychic or medium for them may be the right thing. For me - hardly. I need something backed with much more evidence. in fact, if it doesn't jive in my spirit forget it, but that's just me.

Good conversation.

Billy

Awesome and very wise quote!

Billy

Morning to all of you too! Java sounds great about now . Have a super day!

Billy

Awww.... that's awesome. Good for you! Does that mean there is still some hope for this ole sap....LOL? And yes, good luck to you. I hope it all works out.

Laugh a lot and Smile often,

Billy

Welcome to JSH! Have a blast!

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Welcome to you! People here are just great.

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Billy

Forrest Gump

Tell me about it! It gives you so much perspective of what love really is. And yes, I also have Sweet Home Alabama on DVD (another favorite). I suppose I am just a sucker for what they call chick flicks. <<< Mr. Sensitive here...lol.

These kind of movies really hit hard on an emotional level, especially when you know in your heart that that is exactly the kind of person you are and have so much to offer someone. But you know what? Your day is coming... my day is coming! Keep your chin up!

Dare to be loved and then give it away!

Billy

The sad reality is that people just cannot seem to be real with one another. For some reason they feel that there has to be this pursuit of the game.

I'm really sorry to hear that this happended to you. Its hard to be tough-skinned sometimes, but I am convinced that we need to be - don't take it to heart. People are people. If you are as sincere an individual as I think you are then simply chalk it up to his loss.

I find myself beating myself up the same way at times and wonder, what the heck is wrong with me. However, if you change perspective you can say, what the heck is wrong with him society in general? You are the best you you got! Just keep being you and don't compromise for "the game". I'm convinced that in doing so that we really can find true love and a lifelong commitment with someone that really is worthy of us giving love to them.

I wish you much success in your future...

Billy

I go through a similar circumstance every other weekend with my two kids (son, 10 and daughter 4). Anger and sadness is a typical reaction of grieving children, or anyone for that matter. Think about it, what kind of emotions did you deal with when you split?

The very best thing you can do is try to remain calm when he yells, screams and throws things. A loving embrace to your child goes a long way. Even better than that is communication. Ask your child how he/she feels and why they feel that way. It is so important to reassure them that not only that they are loved, but that Mom is there to help them get through this.

We spend so much time trying to protect our children and we do not wish to see them suffer in this manner. However, we know that we can not change the past or take away their hurt or pain. Just keep on being the very best mother that you can be, consistenly reassuring him with your loving encouragement and embrace. Perhaps a good outlet would be for him and you to go for a walk when he gets home from his Dad's. Not only is this a great time to bond, but to defuse his anger. Depending upon the emotion at the time you can either talk about his time with his dad or simply use it to change the direction of his thinking (example: talk about nature, etc.).

I wish you so much success. I know this is very stressful, but while your marriage has fallen apart you are still comitted to a lifelong journey with your child. And don't forget, one of the best ways to help him is to deal with you own pain and lead by example.

Laugh a lot and Smile often,

Billy

I just got done watching the movie "The Notebook." What an inspirational story of "true" love. Has anyone seen it? If you like this kind of movie you will certainly get a perspective how true love endures all things. Just thought I would share.

Laugh a lot and Smile often,

Billy

I've been an entertainer (magician) for years.... but wait.... I'm not going the direction you might think.

I believe that we all desire to believe in life after death (or at least a good majority of us). My personal beliefs are that even I am a very good judge of character, and one can be very sensitive to anothers (demise), utilizing this to an advantage point, from an entertainment perspective. Does it seem and look real, you bet. In the same sense, I also think that one needs to seperate charlatans who are out there to simply gain either success or money from sincere individuals. I think there is a fine line there.

The bottom line is if the person finds some closure from a deceased loved one through a medium then so be it. Do I believe in it - no way. Do I believe that there are those (mediums) out there that have a great heart and desire to see others heal - you bet.

Only an individual can decide on their own what they believe and why they believe it. Some people simply need this emotional support, if that is to help and not harm, then why not? My experience as a professional magician has taught me that people can get very caught up in a moment and even I can utilize my work skills to work off of their emotions. However, that is just my perspective. Whatever your view, you are indeed entitled to that.

I wish you all success and care greatly that any of you dealing with any pain (from that of a passed loved one or simply a broken heart) are able to heal and move onward. You can do it and you are the best you you got! You deserve fufillment and happiness - you really do.

Laugh a lot and Smile often,

Billy
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Well, you have certainly joined the club - LOL!

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W E L C O M E to JSH!

I think you'll enjoy the nice people here.

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I think you'll enjoy the nice people here. Just be you.... that's my advice!

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