I didn't say otherwise I'm guilty myself. Idealy though ...

Good one Just wqaiting for the right gal (Prefferabbly 20something) to come along.

I try to be straight laced - but the animal in me occasionally comes to the surface.

I always thought that that was found out after you were in a relationship with him for quite awhile, (Prefferabbly after marrage)

I think the answer to that is chemiostry. If it's there sparks fly farther and brighter than a roman candle if not it can be as cold as a makerel that's been in the freezer for 3 days.

Might be able to help up to College Alg and Trig level. No calculus cappability though

I like fistyness in a gal. Was raised around 3 generations got used to it I guess

Hmm I'm sensing a Really Fisty Ak0 - You by chance wouldn't be a natural redhead?
would you?

Good Nonsequiter Ak0

Twitch I was trying to explain myself a bit better There is no offense taken in your replies

I never said it did. I said that I did have heavy GF in the past but I also mentiond the activity diffrences. First off a lot of the activities I love to do 3 mentioned in last post they wouldnt consider as it was all they could do to walk. I wOnce in a relationship I'll take on any challenge that I need to for my Wife, but As I already have to care for a disabled younger brother as well as being the only one left to carry on the family line. These are condiderations I make when Chosing relationships that are going to go further than friends. I want an equal mentally, spiritually, actively etc. I hope this makes sense.

Some may take offense at this but I'm going to tell it with the bark off.

I'm afraid I've seen the other side. I'fve tried the blind dates and usually end up with the frogettes with no personality. I've found Michigan avg to be quite heavy. Don't get me wrong I don't mind a few extra pounds, but I would like to carry my wife over the threshold or out into the lake hoaving some fun with her if the relationship gets to that point. I've had heavy girlfriends in the past and all they eem to want to do is sit on the couch. No walk in the woods, no climbing ladders no DH skiing. Also if things actually progress to a long term relationship "Marrage" How will the creating a family dynamics work? When I see a blue box 9 chances out of 10 I tend to pass it by,m but once in awhile I'll take a chance. found most of the time I've regretted it. It's nice to find out that not all blue boxes are low activity heavy gals.

my 2 cents

Bay There are times when you need to rant about what is important to you.

Howdy;

I'm fraid I'm more a Michigan and Canuck skier. Searchmont, Boyne, Shanty Creek, Cabrefea

Sorry to the rest but I'm siding with Bay on this one Marrage is the way to go. I guess there can be a committed relationship, but For what i believe that is living in sin. Committed relationship stands like there is an out like the people involved are afraid to tie the knot because it's more binding I'd rather be bound to one good o\woman for the rest of my life than be in a committed relationship[. without the mutual security. If i go first in Marrage she gets to decide what happens first esp if all the close relatives are gone she would be able to make the decisions before the state would be able to step in. Sorry If I'm rambeling - I understand what i mean even if it's not so clear on type.

lol

You are so right. Me --I'm hunting for a wife and have found I can actually talk on here without turning into a mute where if it were in person all I could do would be either just look and dream or totally ignore.

All I can say is wow and quite true.

Howdy

You breeze from your car to the lamppost I’m sure and you carry on to the door as before. You see what’s ahead but alas do not see what kindness wait in the faces that pass by. As you breeze through the door of the place you intend you are not mindful of those on the side when unnoticed by you someone says hi. You respond without thinking with a hello of your own as you keep on a moving with out slowing down. The person you spoke to was trying to be noticed as kind. But you were too busy to really consider that the Hi that you tossed of was a response to someone to you was really unseen just like all the rest of the things in the place. You didn’t need them right then so why slow for a pace? That hi you tossed out to that person you passed may have shown a great light on their day at last. But then to breeze by without really slowing your pace well that all but extinguished the light with hardly a trace. For unknown to you the Hi they gave you may have been an attempt to admonish the dust that has so readily built up on their relationship card. A one last attempt before out into the night they go to never even have felt the warmth of kindness and love that is given freely and without reserve. They are the quiet ones that are almost always passed by in favor of the energetic living on the edge people you always have fun with but would never consider for a permanent mate. They are the ones that if you really got to know would be the ideal you have always carried that image of; the person who is stable, shy and timid around you. This very person, who is overlooked in the super exciting arena but is powerful and energetic in their own ways, the ones that are unseen and unheard but, when given the chance and support would move mountains and rivers all for you. Yes these are the quiet ones unseen and unheard that you auto respond as you move on out of sight with that flipped back hi that in which they so delight. But alas that delight turned quickly to pain as you were too blind to see the unseen heartbreak. Yes, you were too far because you breezed right on by. By not breaking your pace you were too far to hear the unheard unmistakable sound of a heart that had shattered one final time without even a sound. So next time my friend consider the find before you breeze by and actually stop to say Hi and consider what treasure might actually be nigh.