Most people see anger as being unhealthy.I believe that anger is a natural response to certain behaviors.We are taught all of our lives that anger is wrong and to get over it.I don't believe in personal attack whether physical or mental but I do believe in letting anger run it's coarse or you will not be able to deal with the situation in a rational way. Find a safe place away from the situation and allow your self to be angry. You will find that,that situation?person will loose that control over you.Try it!!!

I have talked with a lot of men and women, both married and single about this problem.I have often heard especially men that when a discipline comes up the natural often say"he/she is not your child".a lot of women say that you have to accept their child in order to have them(i agree that a man should).I believe that even if I am not directly supporting the child,I believe that every time I do for the mother whether it is financial or spiritually,I am helping to make that child's life better and then be told that the child is not mine.I already know that because the child has reminded me of that every time i say something that he dislikes.One more observation is the possibility of disrespectful and out of control kids.Every want to be respected.If two people are getting together discipline should be decided on very early in the relationship.Remember it is hard for a man to idly sit by and watch any one disrespect his woman,even if it is her own child.