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50 and lonely
Edited by
carolanne58
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Fri 02/13/09 05:17 PM
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Yes, even in rough times and there were lots of them, I never had to worry about did he love me. Uncondional love or a love you know you have without guessing and worrying... Lord let that feeling come back and if it can't guess I'll try to make the people around me happy and glad that they know me... To better days, times, and years to come. Happy Valentines to us and everyone! 
Unconditonal love oh,how I miss that.Happy Valentines Day my friend! |
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Topic:
50 and lonely
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Never ever settle it will only make you question yourself in the end.Like my sister told me "while you are tied up with the wrong one you are not available to be happy with someone more compatible."
I think it is only natural to compare the one you just met with the one you loved.It is probably because you don't want to make a mistake and esspecially when You thought the person you lost was the best.I agree it's not fair. A word to those who may be on the other side of this situation please be patient with us while we discover all the wonderful things about you.jmo carol |
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Hello Everyone, just thought I would bring this one back up. don't like loosing the old ones. Flame I must be very late or very early in my posting.I always seem to miss everyone.I guess I will mosey off to bed and hope to catch the mingle train tommorrow.Yawn. |
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So........that's the headless horseman? I C.
Did willy_cents have something to do with this hummmm...............?lmao |
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Topic:
Is there Love after 50
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Beautiful write tazztops, and caroleann, wishing you a wonderful meet and everything going great>>>>sending warm breezes and mai tai's to cinch the deal 
Thank you recieved those special thoughts all that way! Just wanted to let you know I met **** and had a great time bowling hadn't been in over 20 yrs. smiles. Hope to do it again soon.Don't want to embarass him so won't reveal name yet smiles |
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Topic:
50 and lonely
Edited by
carolanne58
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Thu 02/12/09 11:13 PM
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synergized Hello and happy to meet you!
I agree with your statement about our grocery list and hesitation about not wanting to over look items on it.Do you think this is because maybe at our age we don't feel such pressure to be in a relationship? or are we maybe more confident that we don't need a partner? Even though there are many of us who would like that special someone. jmo. Dammed Valinetine's day! Just Kidding! |
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Ditto that Pacificstar looks like we don't fit the bill lmao
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Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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Animallover jag is so right it is time to move on.
I got caught up in a merry -go-round relationship that was going nowhere it was all about control and me having none.It was eating at me and a friend pointed out to me that I was the only one who could stop the dance by changing the steps.I am so thankful because my life is so much happier with out that heartache. |
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Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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I have a question guys...I met this guy in a site and he seemed very nice , then time went by and he told me he needed me to help him out finding a job and a place to live.Furthurmore...he never looked for a job or Changed his ways .he never does nothing except for leave he goes into mental hospitals all the time .Hes been doing this for over 1 year now and then he calls me or come back and tells me he loves me and hes going to change... I need some help with this here .Why do you all think hes doing this over and over again.I need some serious help here as much as I can get.I just dont understand him at all.well, hope someone answers..y'all take care Someone once said "we do what we know".And for him he is either stuck or maybe because of the mental illness he can't or won't change and you being the kind person you are you are getting run over.If it is not you it will be someone else.You didn't say how you feel about this guy.I feel that his behavior probably won't chage so you need to change how you respond to him.good luck to you. just my opinion. |
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Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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Oh my God I just read my last post you guys must think I am such a bi**h I meant to say I hope that wound wasn't fear and loathings heart breaking .......so so embarassed I would never have intentionally put someone down.Please except my apology F and l.
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Where are the men?Out slaying dragons I bet!
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Topic:
Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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I guess fearandloathing went back to his hole.Hopefully that wound was his heart breaking.
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Topic:
Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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So would you care to guess by my happy face  how the new job is going???
Yes! tell all please. |
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Topic:
Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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Is it true if you put salt in an open wound it will kill the nerves and won't hurt? Cause it isn't working... Ummm....no. It's not true. That would be why it isn't working...lol Yep...that would explain it. Wow I am curious to know deep this wound is? |
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Good evening all - part 4
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Nope not a one! Just hanging out in the shadows waiting for something big to happen.Willy_cents seems to want a snowball fight lol Just push him out his front door 
He has too much snow 
Come out,come out where ever you are Willy_cents!We had lots of snow as well.I am looking forward to the Maple syrup festival. |
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Topic:
Good evening all - part 4
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Nope not a one! Just hanging out in the shadows waiting for something big to happen.Willy_cents seems to want a snowball fight lol
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Topic:
Just ask JustAGuy - part 5
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Why can't I be straightforward with my opinions without being called a B!tch? I've gotten several emails in the last couple of days telling me that I was harsh, a negative cold-hearted b!tch, and that I should keep my opinions to myself. I don't get it. Would everyone be better of if I was fake? No! I absolutely love your blunt honesty, shows me that it actually exists among the opposite sex...do not become fake because of these swine! Be yourself. 
Sorry, but I had to take that question...I'll go back to my hole now. 
I don't think jag would mind you jumping to support another poster.And don't get to buried to deep in that hole nice to see you in this thread. I agree with fear and loathing you should be yourself I don't know what the situation was but I have never seen you say anything offensive.shrugs,hugs to you. |
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Topic:
50 and lonely
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5x10 I imagine Valentine's day is rough for a lot of people especially in this age group when we have lost our partners.Myself it has been 12 yrs and New Years eve and His birthday and Valentine's day are a little rough.My girlfriend Is going through a divorce so we decided to go out for this coming holiday! Yeah, those days are hard. People think I am strange when I say New Years is hard...glad I'm not alone! May is very hard too. My husband's birthday was the 4th, mine on the 8th, and our anniversary on the 22nd! It does get easier as the years fly by. Thanks for your kind words! ((( )))
Your quit welcome.My husband and my birthdays were 4 days apart although I was a year older. Don't ever let anyone make you feel strange about your feelings, grief takes on many different faces. I couldn't understand how life went on for everyone else after the funeral.Please feel free to email me if you feel like talking. carol |
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50 and lonely
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snowballs? I got about 4 feet of them in my yard. Why don't you come on over? 
Ha,ha, sounds like someones looking to be tossed in the snowbank you big flirt!hugs to you willy. |
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Evening CarolAnn. Doin okay eating leftover pizza and spaghetti. Made the Cut today concerning layoffs at work. took about half our people out of our department. I like cold pizza for breakfast.Yummy! I guess It is getting bad all over job wise eh?I am applying for a job at a non profit organization where I have volunteered for 16 yrs now.Crossing my fingers.Kinda hard to type that way. |
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