Oh it's going good (bored outta my damn mind help me) how about you?

Well, my only other idea would be to put yourself in a different atmosphere than a bar or club. Join a group or take a class that interests you. That way, you will interact with others in a way that isn't nearly as difficult as walking up to a stranger in a bar.

good luck you stubborn cuss haha.

Just type without using your brain as I do... Much quicker.

Maybe cause you are thinking too much!!!

But yeah, that has happened to me so I guess it's normal.

OR

we are insane

Going good ray, welcome

oh yeah.... NEVERMIND!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome

Click your heels together and say "I'm a sponge head" 5 times.

If you could just go out and find "the one" at the drop of a hat, would it be as special? I think it's hard for a reason, so when we do find that "one" we will do everything to hold on to them.

Wow I sound like a damn fool don't I?

Oh well.

I'm gonna chase turkeys on the highway with a butchers knife.

Don't worry, I'll wear my helmet.

Maybe the first one who feels strong enough about the other should say "hey, wanna be exclusive?" well, ok maybe not in those words but you get the point.

I'm saying that maybe you should gain confidence by understanding more about yourself and learning that you are just as good as the next guy in the bar. It sounds like you're full of self-doubt in those situations.

Maybe instead of going to bars and being fake, you should stay home and work on yourself. Please don't take that as a put down in any way. I'm just saying that I think that alot of people who are shy and not confident just don't know themselves all that well.

OR

I guess you can go to the bars and clubs and fake it and you may in fact meet people but those people won't know the "real" you just the fake one that you made up.

Ever hear "you can't really love someone else until you love yourself"?

Am I rambling again? Damn it

Just be yourself. If you do that and you're happy with who you are as a person, you should already be confident and if the other person doesn't like you, so what. Not everyone will like you so it's no big deal.

Welcome and have fun.

I let it build up and then I go shopping and throw things at people.

That's insane to worry about someone who left you. All that is gonna happen from thinking about her is depression and that's not worth anything.

She left you? Why worry about her then?? Why care at all??

Move on and find someone who will treat you right.

welcome