Can you be in long distance relationship?

Only you can make that choice.

Its a turn on when you are courting.. then after you are married, it's more like

Come on!.. get in the car already....Jesus Christ!, its pouring out here!

FFS! Cheating is cheating and it's wrong, no matter how someone twists it! Your "friend" and the married man should be ashamed! You wouldn't like it if you were the wife, so stop justifying it

Sex ain't everything, if U Can Connect with someone on a deeper level outside the bedroom then it makes the bedroom Extraordinary! That's Just Fact. I'm just saying

Here you go.

Isn't there always a 'courting' phase? Even if a guy would tell you right away he likes you, you will still go through a wooing phase.
I like to see him show me he indeed likes me, is willing to make an effort for me, just like men like to conquer a woman, which boils down to having to make an effort to 'get' her.
Isn't that a healthy part of getting to know each other, 'testing' to see if you match or not, and at the same time allowing feelings to grow on which a relationship can be built?

I think this has more to do with how you regard "courting" to be. Maybe some feel that's where you do not touch, kiss, and cuddle. But courting can -and in my opinion should- still continue even after you've had sex.
If you want to keep the relationship healthy and happy, neither should really stop courting, flirting etc.

I assume you mean the 'guy turning up with flowers, taking girl to endless dates' kind of courting. The type before intimacy, before kissing even maybe.
For me, if that'd go on for too long, I'd lose interest altogether. Would feel too platonic to me.
I'm too passionate for a long-winded platonic courting thing. Would bore the heck out of me and I'd start looking for greener pastures.

I don't think there's a default. I guess that if the match is good, it will work out by itself, based on the chemistry between two people.

I've been in both situations. Well sort of.

Courted a gal for a while and everything progressed slow and steady. The relationship lasted for years. But ended abruptly.

Another woman I met for dinner and well she just grabbed me by .
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My pants pockets and we were off to the races. That relationship lasted months. But the friendship has lasted years.

ahhhhh ... you been naughty ... huh ??