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Hey, any others going through a breakup? Im 7 days into no contact..
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allready 8 months... it will get better ;)
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Hum all most 7 years for me.. Eventually the pain eases and you will be with another. But don't rush into anything and lean on your friends for support.
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Yope.....sux
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The process of healing is important, but running from pain is inherently normal though not helpful as flight or fight responses do not help one work through the pain and learn the lessons that the experience offers. By seeing the role we play in a relationship that changes ( notice I do not use the word fail as it implies blame and or guilt which serve no purpose nor help one learn the lessons about oneself and another)we can ascertain the motives and fears that inhibit a more genuine person to deal with the pain and anguish that appears in relationships. When we stop blaming others for what happens we open the door to insight and responsibility and may see aspects of ourselves that shed light on how the events that led to the needed dissolution of a relationship. Courage and tenacity together can help one understand the natural sequence of events that relationships offer and how to address them in more helpful and productive ways. Owning ones own emotional reality is the beginning of wisdom as putting the blame elsewhere simply keeps a person stuck in a pattern that is not likely to be helpful nor productive. By owning ones own emotional reality it is possible to see how our own emotions helped shape the outcome of a relationship which changed. With a greater understanding of ones own emotional repertoire we are offered the chance to see ourselves clearly and honestly which can then be transformed to being a more effective person and next partner.
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Yes. It has been just over a week. Each day it gets better and I am reminded I don't follow the pide piper and his stupid lead...
Believe in you. Hugs x |
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Boo hop. Cry lol i just got out of a 2 year relationship the day of Christmas. I will not only bounce back but I will be more hateful towards anyone with the slightest amount of disrespect. Also since I'm able to for various reasons I will abide by the 3F-rule. Find, ****, forget
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Well you picked a teacher that showed you what you do NOT want in a relationship. Also the rule of thumb is 50% of the time you had is what you get to break up over. So ... let's say you been married (I know just a BF or a GF) for 20 years then you get to deal with the after effects for 10 years. I am just guessing here .. but he came from parents that were addicts, dysfunctional and had relationship problems (his mom and dad got divorces). So guess what .. he is an addict, dysfunctional and has poor relationship skills. Why did you pick him ... look in a mirror ... does YOUR mom and dad have addict stuff going on, are dysfunctional and poor relationship stuff ... so guess what Holmes ??? You got some work to do ... or keep doing what you are doing and keep getting what you have always gotten. Here is a video on the Duck Disease that is in the Human Condition if you want to fix this up .. and not do it again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1QrxgZtqik Duck Disease If this posting makes no sense to you whatsoever .. then FURGETTABOUIT !!! sumbuddie wear blind sea 
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cliche' coming up...
It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all... so they say. |
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Thu 12/29/16 11:39 AM
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I break up with my fantasy man once day ... he has a life
divorced now 5 or six yrs ...think I am going for some kind of record ... not many dates in between ... no one serous anyway ... |
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cliche' coming up... It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all... so they say. Ever see the response to that one in Men In Black? Mine too. Here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwHdW5BIVo8 |
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cliche' coming up... It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all... so they say. Ever see the response to that one in Men In Black? Mine too. Here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwHdW5BIVo8 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4z_VRjb8BM Makes me wonder which is the greater heart ache to have never found love or to have found love and lost it Although I suspect if we truly never found love we wouldn't survive Though we can survive even if we haven't recognised the love we have had |
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cliche' coming up... It's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all... so they say. Ever see the response to that one in Men In Black? Mine too. Here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwHdW5BIVo8 That was the first thing that came to my mind when I read that too. And I agree with Tommy Lee Jones on this one ... |
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Yep 7 weeks ago my wife left me for another guy. Been married for 13yrs and nothing makes sense. Just focusing on making sure the kids are ok and as happy as can be.
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It was not the thorn bending to the honeysuckle, but the honeysuckle embracing the thorn
Wuthering heights. |
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Edited by
Dodo_David
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Fri 12/30/16 01:15 PM
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If this posting makes no sense to you whatsoever .. then FURGETTABOUIT !!! sumbuddie wear blind sea
 What do you mean "If"?
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me to
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After 12yrs of being together she decided to walk away
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hii dear
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Been through it and now am out of it....
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