hi, welcome to mingle and have fun, and hopefully you find what your looking for x

i love the song, the gambler, a mate and i would sing it everywhere we went, loved it when we could get up and do kareoke.... know all the words by heart...

is there anyone else that loves the song as much as i do?

HI, im new to mingle 2, pretty sure you have posted on some things ive put out there, im from australia too, but QLD.

hi, sunshine coast, is in queensland, in australia, and includes, i guess, caloundra, moorchydore, mooloolaba, alexandra headlands, and plenty more suburbs in the area.

haha, yeah i'm just looking through everything, it's not too bad at the moment.

hi, im just looking to see if there are any people on this site on the sunshine coast?

my name is bianca, im 23, i have a 2yr old daughter, im into camping, walks along the beach, having a quiet bbq either at home or the beach, im not into clubbing, but i do enjoy going to the pub for a few drinks, i don't judge people by the way they look, im interested in getting to know someone, knowing who they are before i decide if i like them or not, looks are not everything.

im looking for a relationship, i dont really want to get into a casual sex realtionship, i want something with meaning but am wanting to gain a friendship first and if that all that comes from things, im fine with that also, you can never have too many friends.

now that ive said all that, i have previously put a post up, and i guess i was a bit negitive and silently got my butt kicked for it.

so the help im after is, how do i make my profile appeling, as ive been told they way it is at the moment scares guys away. and considering this is an internet dating site, thats not such a wise thing to be doing.

so any help i can get would be great. do i mention i have a daughter, and she means the world to me, and unless your willing to accept she is in my life, than it wont work, or is that too much??

hi guy, yes im new, i joined last night, and yes i probably shouldn't have posted what i did, especially the 'bimbo' i guess i wasn't calling all skinny girls bimbos, but i went out the other night with a group of friends, and i'm a people watcher, and standing at the bar waiting 15min to be served gave me plenty of time, and i was really surprised to find that unless a girl had a short skirt, boobs hanging out and killer heels, they wouldnt react, but as soon as that image walked passed something clicked in thier head, you could see it in their eyes, and their body laungage.

and im not wishing i was like those girls, i am happy with who i am, and what i look like, and i wont change for anybody, but it makes you think, is there any guys out there, that doesnt react like this, and would like to get to know a person before they judge them, and to look outside the 'norm', is it really a case of some guys like and only like skinny girls, and some guys like and only like bigger girls, i would think it would be whats inside that attracts the most.

and as for my profile, any tips would be great, i only did i quick one last night, and i guess never really thought about reading it from a guys point of view, but at the same time i like to put the fact my daughter is there and will always come first, and i guess yeah im not working, but being a single mum doesnt leave much time for work, and no im not looking for someone to provide for me and my daughter, i can and have been doing that for almost 2years. what was i spose to say, i couldnt lie and say yep ive got a job, is that really a deal cruncher??

well i hope i covered everything, oh wait my wording and my sentance structure, i guess yes im sorry, it was a quick email, first post, didnt think i would get a reaction, was a bit surprised of the amount of comments. so i do apologise, and will try better in the future, if i dare post again.

ok now i think i have defended my self a little, and if you've got something to add, or tips on my profile, send me a reply i guess..

thankyou

im not skinny, im a little over weight, but i dress nice, do my hair,and look good. yet most guys cant get past that im not a sice 14 or lower...

is that really all guys think about, the image??

i dont get it either, everything being about sex... i want someone to talk to, get to know, have a friendship....

i didnt use pull ups, they felt too much like nappies, and if they do have an accident in undies they can feel the wetness more and its uncomfortable, so after a few incidents, they relise that its better going to the potty. thats what helped with my little one, but she also had to be ready, she basically told me, i let her come in when i went to the toilet so she knew thats what big girls did, and the first time she did wees on the toilet i made a huge fuss, and she got a lollie, and for the next 5times i did this, but than she was fine going, and washing her hands after..