my name is bianca, im 23, i have a 2yr old daughter, im into camping, walks along the beach, having a quiet bbq either at home or the beach, im not into clubbing, but i do enjoy going to the pub for a few drinks, i don't judge people by the way they look, im interested in getting to know someone, knowing who they are before i decide if i like them or not, looks are not everything.

im looking for a relationship, i dont really want to get into a casual sex realtionship, i want something with meaning but am wanting to gain a friendship first and if that all that comes from things, im fine with that also, you can never have too many friends.

now that ive said all that, i have previously put a post up, and i guess i was a bit negitive and silently got my butt kicked for it.

so the help im after is, how do i make my profile appeling, as ive been told they way it is at the moment scares guys away. and considering this is an internet dating site, thats not such a wise thing to be doing.

so any help i can get would be great. do i mention i have a daughter, and she means the world to me, and unless your willing to accept she is in my life, than it wont work, or is that too much??

While I think it's absolutely necessary to mention your daughter, the "I am a single mother of two kids, and THEY ARE MY WORLD" line has become such a standard that half of the people believe it's so obvious it shouldn't need to be said, and the other half just ridicule it as a ubiquitous cliche.

I think it's enough to mention that you have a daughter without belaboring the point, as so many have done in their profiles, or becoming defensive about it, as so many more have done.

Good luck, and have fun! There are a lot of great people on this site!

Love your profile & it is good that you want something real
Good luck & hope you have fun here

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