Beejays68,You said that you have been working on the same thing for 10 years now.When you stop and think of all the time you have been working on this how far did you get?Ten years is along time,to work on something to never find a ending.There is always ending to everything we just have to know when to let it go...Everyone can tell you when it is time ,but really only the person who is dealing with it has the time,we all face things in life differently then others,The best part is to know that there is other people out there that care for you and will stand by you while to try to figure out what you need to do.
You also said asked How do you love someone who don't went to be loved?We all went to be loved,some find it hard to handle.Maybe that person as been hurt and is afraid to let their love show,afraid to be hurt again..if you really love that person you will give them time to,to build trust again,to be able to open up and share what they are feeling ,not passing judgement on them.We all grow from our pass and move ahead ,some faster then others.But ,who is better to know you then you...I hope that you find the strength you need to let go and live a life of happiness.....

That was a good one.Maybe they should of cooked for you as well.You know when you have it good,you always find your way home.....

Hi There,I read your pro-file and you are missing some things.Like what do you like to do when your at home at night.Like would you like to watch movies with that special someone,cuddle on the couch with,you need something to keep the womans mind going.No,it don't have to be dirty,but you went to WOW that woman reading your pro-file.They would like to be able ask you questions if they need to.All,woman ask is that men be open with the way they feel,we would love to be able to read minds but we can't.....And men went the same respect as women,you won't know until you ask.....
You have a great start on yours just give us more about you!!!!Good Luck and I hope you find your special one.......

I really don't believe that.We all have shitty days,and we don't went to talk and have our ears turned off.If you know they are not in the mood to talk why are you even talking to them.You are better to leave them alone and try again later.That is why alot of men calls a lot of women bitchy,they always don't need the last word.Just smile and walk away,and think there is no fighting today....Oh, how peaceful that would be for the both of you....

Hi and welcome to the site.You have a good question,yes it does work if you have time to set here all day.Must of us don't have to much time for of that.
While you are hear watch out for the fools, (SCAMMERS)the ones who tell you they love you,and they don't even know you.They are on all the sites so WATCH OUT and be SAFE.....
Good Luck on your finding your special someone.