not having any luck meeting any chics in chch these days and the ones I do meet tend to be taken so thought I would try online but all the dating sites I signed up to seem to be filled with scammers who just want you to go sign up to other sites etc so Im curious if there are any real woman in my age range on here at all?

so quick background - im quite shy and introverted (less so since I started competing in dance comps. got my first dance competition coming up at end of july in chch), never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. im 30yr old and sick of being single

so anyway I need some female advice on how to get a girlfriend in my age range (20-37) as I got interested in getting a girlfriend far later than most so missed the opportunity to learn how to date chicks when I was in high school so im a bit lacking on my ability/skillset needed to get a date

looking forward to reading your replys so I can find out what I need to fix so I can no longer be single