so quick background - im quite shy and introverted (less so since I started competing in dance comps. got my first dance competition coming up at end of july in chch), never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. im 30yr old and sick of being single

so anyway I need some female advice on how to get a girlfriend in my age range (20-37) as I got interested in getting a girlfriend far later than most so missed the opportunity to learn how to date chicks when I was in high school so im a bit lacking on my ability/skillset needed to get a date

looking forward to reading your replys so I can find out what I need to fix so I can no longer be single

Just be yourself and try too find a girl that you love

Just be honest and real you will get a girl of your dreams

hi

Truth be told....
I could not see myself falling for a guy who has never kissed a girl at 30.
What happened to the kiss he should have stole from his kindergarten crush???
I dont know. Plus he is unemployed.
Tsk tsk tsk......that's hard

Just be yourself, people will like you for who you are and what you are. Don't be in a hurry to find love, the right girl for you will just come in time. Being introvert and inexperienced could be a bit hard for you to find a date, I would say you have to learn to get out from your shell, take off the barrier that makes you afraid or shy to reach out to a girl that you like. Have the courage to approach someone of your interest, take a step forward or you will get stuck from where you are now. Start from your passion which is dancing, you might meet someone there whom you have the same interest. And lastly, be successful in everything that you do and find a stable job....a confident and successful man attracts women. Goodluck in your search and break a leg on your dance competition. Welcome to mingle

^^ good advice, dolphin

Thank you mzrosie I've been there once before, I know the feeling........ it's not too late to spread your wings and learn to fly singlestevechch. Just like your dancing steps..... learn the steps, practice makes perfect when you perfect your moves, I'm sure you'll win dance with the tune of the music you like, feel the beat and the rhythm and dance from the heart, you'll never go wrong.......apply that in your life

I've never had a real boyfriend there is no time frame on when to date and I'm 32 next Tuesday and I've never been on an official date just as long as you have good conversations that's all that matters

Generic tampons are NOT as good as brand name.

Not that kind of female advice?