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Thu 04/07/11 10:19 AM

I do take responsibility. That's why I have no regrets about what I've done, good or not-o-good!


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Thu 04/07/11 10:18 AM


I'm pretty sure most don't read them, other than to see what gender you are. They look at the pic, decide if you're hot or not and then send a weird email. Perfect example, I got hit on by a guy in another country last night. I wanted so badly to write back "why do you even bother???" But I didn't want to encourage him....


i had a guy that email me the other day
and he said he lived if i recall right in texas
i ask him all these questions and his reply was can we do one step at a time
so i email him again and ask him what his nationality was and he said american.......LOL OK

so i ask him again and he said why does it matter


He sounds like a real winner. I would have blocked him.

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Thu 04/07/11 10:17 AM

If I had a husband/bf who had a problem with that, that would be HIS problem, not mine.
That jumped right out at me. Really? Wouldn't your husband's problems also be your problems? Wouldn't you be operating as a unit? My ex also had that attitude. When my life melted down, she only treated it as a giant inconvenience for her. I never really understood that.


Ha, maybe that's why I'm never getting married. I don't want anyone else's problems to affect me.

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Thu 04/07/11 10:15 AM
I don't blame anyone but myself, especially since only I can fix it.drinker

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Thu 04/07/11 10:12 AM
If it was an accident, why bother to confront them? Maybe they didn't even see you. I'm in oblivion most of the time anyway, I've had 3 guys on 3 separate occasions basically tell me they were watching me and I never even noticed....

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Thu 04/07/11 10:10 AM
I'm pretty sure most don't read them, other than to see what gender you are. They look at the pic, decide if you're hot or not and then send a weird email. Perfect example, I got hit on by a guy in another country last night. I wanted so badly to write back "why do you even bother???" But I didn't want to encourage him....

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Thu 04/07/11 10:07 AM
I wouldn't go out to dinner with this one either; I'm pretty sure he'd bring one of his kids along.laugh

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Thu 04/07/11 09:55 AM
I really don't see what the problem is; it would seem that two adults of the opposite sex would be capable of not jumping into bed with each other- only animals are so primal that they can't control "base urges." I can't imagine only having female friends, I get along with and have more in common with men than I do with women. You don't have the cattiness, the b!tchiness, the competitiveness, the constant talk of babies and children and other mundane crap that doesn't interest me in the slightest.

I work in an office made up of mainly women, and two guys. Who do I talk to the most? One of the guys, who happens to be married. Is there anything creepy or sexual about it? Um, no. He's not into me and I'm not into him and there will never be an issue. If I had a husband/bf who had a problem with that, that would be HIS problem, not mine.

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Thu 04/07/11 09:45 AM

Paranoia is a b****,


Yes, it is.

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Thu 04/07/11 08:50 AM
I'm sure someone is, personally I prefer jerks.

Good luck to you!

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Thu 04/07/11 07:45 AM

just get with any woman. especially if she has been in several failed relationships. she will be willing to change you into whatever she thinks you need to be. the less self esteem you have the more aggressive of a woman you need. she can fix you, and she will. once you have learned she will continue to tweak and fine tune you until you are perfect, then she will change you some more. all you have to do is wave goodbye to your manhood waving (you may want to bulk up physically so you can handle carrying her purse)


Not all women are like that.:tongue:

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Thu 04/07/11 07:42 AM
Welcome and good luck.

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Thu 04/07/11 07:39 AM


You have to judge each situation on it own merit. People can really justify anything they want to justify if they really put a scenario to it. There just is no clear cut correct answer. My question is the friend just a friend that happens to have a pen~s? OR is he a friend because he has one? The physchological aspect says that while platonic friendships are normal and common place, that many, if given the opportunity, will develop into a sexual situation. It's not as if the individual has premeditated openly to having sex with another person, the subconsious has decided so. Are you having troubles in your marriage? Perhaps you are seeking something your relationship is lacking. I would look past whether or not it is technically "OK" The main thing you must ask yourself is why was this person sought out as a friend to begin with? What is it in this person you find appealing. Then you have to judge.
Good Luck
Welcome to the site.....but maybe there are no hidden agendas here...maybe she simply wants friends! I have several male friends and we would never even have a passing sexual thought of one another...we are more like brothers and sisters. People are people and I still say if they don't trust me...they need to go on down the road! My parents chose who my friends were as I grew up...now that I am a big girl, I can handle it all by myself!


Exactly. Most of my friends are men and there's no attraction either side.drinker

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Thu 04/07/11 07:02 AM
Get a divorce first.

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Thu 04/07/11 07:01 AM

I'm thinking about how my boss told the other workers that they should try to be more like me and that they might learn something from me. AWESOME!


Future manager material.drinker

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Thu 04/07/11 06:28 AM
I'm barely up. I hate mornings. But welcome and good luck anyway.

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Thu 04/07/11 06:23 AM
Where I work it's mainly couples and they'll all friends with each other's spouses- they hang out after hours a lot- so it seems to work. I agree with Krupa, your husband has trust issues.

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Wed 04/06/11 09:26 PM





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There could be a guy I'm very attracted to, but has a horrible personality, is mean or arrogant or something along those lines. If I chose the looks over the horrible personality, I would consider that shallow.


Really; what's his name?


What's whose name?


The attractive guy with the horrible personality.

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Wed 04/06/11 09:19 PM
I heard one was gay.

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Wed 04/06/11 09:18 PM

Why do homeless people have dogs? Just wondering.......

smokin


Companionship?:tongue:

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