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Topic:
Stealth Mode
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Perving? on Mingle? No way, I just dont believe it.
Actually isn't that what wal-mart parking lots, and shopping malls for.. 
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I have terrible, awful, really bad taste in men. That's my problem in relationships. Well quit biting them and use a stick... 
i like to bite 
Yea but you bite to hard you meanie. No flesh wounds.... |
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I have terrible, awful, really bad taste in men. That's my problem in relationships. Given, I don't know anything, but that would seem like the easiest to change. If I really knew anything, I wouldn't be single. but i like my terrible, awful, really bad taste in men. they just don't like me back! 
 There there now, its ok, if we could get close enough to bite you back, Im sure we would enjoy it too 
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I have terrible, awful, really bad taste in men. That's my problem in relationships. Well quit biting them and use a stick...
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Getting past the ugly.....
Once she does that, she is just fine.... 
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 02:06 AM
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Getting involved too fast, too soon. and too young... lol just kidding.. I had to throw that in there. |
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Topic:
Maybe it's just me but
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am I the only one that has a bit of a problem with parents out running around with their 6-8 year old children at 11:30 at night? Even if it is summer? Or it is old fashioned to think kids that age ought to be in bed at a more appropriate time? i've known parents that will keep their kids out til 2-3 am 
Ive known kids that keep their parents out that late. |
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Topic:
late night confessions
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I confess that music makes me uber happy. Oh yeah, and that it is possible to be obsessed with more than one person at a time. 
What exactly does uber mean anyway? where does it come from? sorry to interupt, just curious.. i think its german for very or something Ahh thanks Lonestar, appreciate it. |
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Can't you meet a nice Christian guy in church? As logical as that might seem.... My guess would be that the " Christian " guys in churches are just as bad, if not worse, than guys that aren't religious. No, what it means is, just because someone is not compatible does not mean that are BAD as you put it, just because a relationship doesn't work out, does not mean the other party was bad or mean or evil, it just means, they weren't the one. Christians arent perfect people and never claim to be, if they do, then they had better question whether they really are. Christians are people just like anyone else, they make mistakes and do things wrong, the difference is, we recognized our sin and try to learn off it and correct ourselves instead of repeating it over and over. Please don't turn this into a christian bashing thread. Well..I'm not gonna bother to go there since this is the wrong forum section for it. LOL, If you didn't want to go there, then BACKSPACE would have taken care of that. I wasn't getting defensive, just taking my side on the debate. Sorry if you took it wrong, I guess it does look kind of harsh, it wasn't intended. Guess i could have left out the bashing part. |
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 14
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you'd think I'd atleast get an offer for a drink or 2 lol 
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still no loving.
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Topic:
late night confessions
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I confess that music makes me uber happy. Oh yeah, and that it is possible to be obsessed with more than one person at a time.
What exactly does uber mean anyway? where does it come from? sorry to interupt, just curious.. |
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 12:40 AM
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YES thats it, they suck, or at least she....nm. lol
TMI, later. |
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Why are people so selfish and cruel to each-other?
Sorry to hear that happened to you, John. 
BTW, I read your profile and the answer to the question you asked at the end of it is Mark Twain... DUHHH!!!! lol |
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Why are people so selfish and cruel to each-other?
Sorry to hear that happened to you, John.
Its lessons learned, all a big huge part of life. |
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Edited by
John1932
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Mon 08/03/09 12:22 AM
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So by this I assume you mean men don't bother to ask because women will say no anyway? However, men WILL ask for sex instead. So... who's judging whom by a cover? The point is, men that ask for sex are the ones doing the asking, the men that truly want to know you and are interested in you are the ones that are not doing the asking. Its not that men have the nerve to ask for sex, but not dates, its just that the men that truly want dates aren't asking. There are two different types of men. One doesn't care about feelings and getting to know you, they just think your hot and want the sex and will play you however they can to get it. The other type does care about emotions and is interested in who you are and because he focuses on these emotions, he also fears the rejection. The more seriously he focuses, the more deterred he is. For instance, if I finally got the courage to walk up to you and asked you out, it probably wouldn't work after you ended up throwing away your shoes from me  all over them, LOL
the bottom line is, if it is true love and feelings and you really care about that person, sex is NEVER an issue and i could love you and hold you and cherish you and never care about sex. No some women would take offense to that, "we've been dating for 6 months now and he wont even make a move, i guess he does find me attractive," well maybe he respects you and loves you so much that he wont put you in a position to choose. Most of these guys are the "let it come natural guys," the right moment, the right setting, glaring into each others eyes, slow dancing or snuggling, candle light, soft music, slow kissing and then next thing you know, your making love. Instead of , "Well its been six months now, ready to do it?" LOL I have wondered way off course here, so I will stop my opinionated writing. |
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I don't ask for two reasons: 1) I'm scared of rejection, yes. I can't deny that. 2) If I ask a man, how am I to know he won't say yes just because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings, or ouf ot an ego boost he was given or..? How do I know, even if he says yes, that he actually wants ME? That's why. I know. I'm neurotic. 
actually , that is a human response. which means what? that your human. I feel that way more than just a lot, and if most people on here were honest, they would admit to it too. Its all about ego and some of us have brittle ego's and we fear that it will get crushed and brittle ego's are just tough to put back together. You worry they will say no, but when they say yes, you worry that they dont mean it and just don't want to hurt your feelings, or just after sex. My ex-wife, who left me for someone else, called me up one day and after a long talk she told me how much she missed me and how she would love to come see me for the weekend and see if we still had any spark. She i agreed and even paid all of her expenses getting her here, we went to the lake and swam and hung out and had a good time, but when i ask her why she came and ask her to be honest, she said, "Well honestly, I was going to go camping with my family, but i thought about you and I realized that you were a guaranteed lay and going out with them wasn't. So basically I was her Hoe for the weekend. It crushed me all over again and i sent her home with a kiss on the cheek and nothing more. |
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Topic:
Wuz up people?Howz everyone?
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Welcome to Mingle,
Hope you enjoy your stay. |
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Topic:
Going back to school
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hi all, I am 39 and decided to go back to school this fall to do what I always had a love for....Vet Technition. Is there anyone out here in the Vet field and do you have any advice and or support to give? I am so scared yet so excited all at the same time! :) :) That's awesome. 
I went back to school in my early 30's. There were mostly older people there. I was surprised to see that. I saw people in their 30's, 40's, 50's and up. I have an appt this Tues to have a tour of the school and sit down and see what financial aide and grants i qualiify for. I was told that as a "non traditional" student, that its not uncommon and that there are lots of not right out of high school students there...hey, maybe I will meet "the one" at school doing the same thing i love....would be so cool! ;) Good Luck Sweet, if you find the one, I wish you the best, if you dont, then there is always ME!!!!!
;) Thats sweet...you willing to move to MN? LOL I lived in Oklahoma several yrs and not really fond of that part of the States....Not that I wouldnt ever move, but..... Actually, i have been there and have friends and family there. If I met the one and we fell in love and the only way for us to be together was for me to move, then you better believe I would. You can move for the one you love or you and stay lonely and sit and wait for another 'ONE' to come along. Bu that's just me.. |
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Topic:
Is flirting cheating?
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WHAT is flirting? Isn't flirting an opinion really? If you walk by and smile at a women because your being friendly, you see that as fine and innocent, but your woman may see it as you were sexing her up with you eyes. You may see your woman notice an old friend and she smiles and runs up too him and gives him a big hug, but it seems to you the hug was just a little longer than a normal hug and there was a lot of breast press in that one. Is she flirting, or is she just excited about an old friend. Flirting is a tough one cause there are so many opinions on what a flirt is, when it may really be nothing.
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