I have not been on much, but regardless of what picture any woman posts
here, I find them all beautiful. (not in THAT way!) Just woman in
general are all beautiful, and their inside beauty is what lasts the
longest. Their outside may not be up to "Barbie" standards, but when
their inside shows, with all of the love and compassion I have seen
here...then are completely gorgeous!

I know what and "who" you mean! LOL! It still won't solve the problem!

I have two lawn mowers....I'll lend you one. Come get it.:)

Brain washing children? Wow, not a unique concept. We do that since
birth to them. We brain wash them into thinking the way we do, doing
things the way "we" do, and becoming "us"...in the end. So, isn't that
in itself "brainwashing"?

Hello...I'm new the past week too. Nice to meet you. Bienvenido

Octyp....what??? I can't even USE the word let alone SPELL it right now!
OMG you....you....cm! :)

Thank you oldsage...Rebecca by the way. Nice to meet you. I waited long
enough so it's more enjoyable to find the right man. I don't think he
would have like me 20 years ago...and now at 44 and 9 children
later...he's the one! (not the one who fathered them all...lol) but he's
great!

That's what she gets for not putting her clothes on! Sheila!!!!

I don't think she's watching them..she thinks she's IN them!

Thank you, I wish everyone can find the same as I have. That is my true
wish. I never though I would, but since I have...I know it is possible
for others.

Sheila...put your damn clothes back on! (love you girl) IARNLW!!! and
I'm NOT peeking!

Styx thankyou. I did deserve better and I have it. He's wonderful!

No, cheating is not "fun" and was never "intended" to be...only for the
"cheater". At least they think so at the time and don't think about the
consequences. My last ex was always on cocaine and that effected his
rationality. He would justify everything and with the alcohol
too...double whammy.

Cheating is never a good thing, but if you know in your heart you can
never trust them afterwards, don't go back. It's not fair to either one.
You can only make the situation worse by living with the "mistrust"
until it eats you alive. It's not worth it. Professional help afterwards
is sometimes needed.

Of course, if we just don't cheat...it eliminates the problem, now
doesn't it? I've always told my ex's that when I am no longer wishing to
be with them, I would have enough ba*** to tell them to their face
FIRST. They weren't man enough to. Sad when a woman has more ba*** than
a man.

I know that feeling styx...but that means we never really "forgave" them
to begin with.

This is a hard one for me. Every man I've been with cheated, except one.
Those are not good odds. With my last one I tried and tried to work it
out. Saying he was sorry, and crying but the next weekend doing the same
thing. I am no one to "forgive" him. I won't forget.

The man I am dating admitted to cheating on his wife and having an
affair. That does NOT mean he isn't sorry. He lost his wife and daughter
because of it. He was young and stupid. He admits his fault, and I would
never have found out if it weren't for him being honest with me. I don't
condone cheating, but I will not make him responsible and punish him for
the acts of others. He has my complete trust until I see that he doesn't
deserve it. I don't believe he would ever do it again, and that he is
remorseful. Everyone makes mistakes, and I will not judge him for it. I
am only concerned about who/what/how he is with me and what we become
together in the future.

Forgive...yes, forget...too hard to...but won't punish others for it.

I ditto that y Gracias. Muy amable

I'm new here but from what I've seen, there are so many beautiful woman
here. Inside and out. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of this new
home.

Yes, darling. Starbucks...and NOW please. I'll get in the car
now...see...I'm leaving...I'm driving....can't reach the key...

Dates? I gotta a date? My boyfriend's gonna be sooooo upset!

don't tell me you know me already Stew....:)