Thank yall for your response...I am taking heed to everything you said.

I recently broke up with a minister I was dating. But what bothers me is that he is completely different from any christian that I have ever known. I'm not saying that I am perfect but when I sin I feel very conflicted but I notice when he purposely sin he doesnt recognize the fault. It really confuses me...so much so I had to say goodbye but in the end I am wondering am I judging him? I dont point the finger when he purposely sin but I will comment and walk away b/c I am really trying to live a christian lifestyle.

I dunno maybe some of you can enlighten me on dating a christian man (baptist, I should say).

I would like to know the answer to that one...unfortunately I dont think any person has the answer. I'm not giving up though!