Hello from a fellow Niagara Region resident!

Sorry to hear about the luck you've been having. Don't take it personally or to heart. People are attracted to whoever they're attracted to and can't change that. So we all need to take this process a little less personally. On top of that, there are only so many available men (or women for you guys) out there in the region and of a reasonable age, so I just expect it to be slow.

I think some people do mass contacting and you could be running into some of that when a guy initiates contact and then doesn't respond. If you're just getting ,"hello" or something similar that could be what's going on. I don't expect a man to write a novel for his first contact, but a little more than hello will indicate some real interest.

I also don't do the sending nudes or almost nudes to anyone online. If someone needs that to be interested, they're not the guy for me! I'll bet they're not the man for you either. Lol! Stay "just a normal chick"! In the long run, it'll work better for you.

Maybe we need to get some Niagara region events going so those that are serious could actually meet and mingle?!
It's difficult for sure. I signed up November and haven't really had much contact with anyone. I'm guilty of not signing in regularly, which hasn't helped me, but it is a slow process so I'm ok with taking my time.

Hope things get better for you as we near summer and people get more social. :) Good luck mingling!

Hello everyone...from Port Colborne (Niagara region) Ontario.
Hope you're mingling has been going well!