I had a couple dreams about kissing girls so why do I feel weird and they were just dreams

Don't know

yes it feels weird because you want to be nice but the chemistry isnt there for me

it took a while to learn but sex is not a recreational sport women love yourselves i just learned to love me

Thank you all for your comments i have faith that i wont have to bend my personal wants and beliefs to have a relationship i am comfortable alone i just have to get frequent massages to release my tention thanks everyone again

dating someone from church is just not going to happen my grandmother, my whole family and the whole congregation will know and i just rather not go there

i love having sex i just want to feel just as good as i felt doing it when its over its just to risky now days to let the sex cloud my jugdement

I am a heavy set blk woman living in detroit i recently gave myself to the lord and i dont drink or smoke any more i want to find a future husband but every i mean every guy i meet whether he's a dope dealer or a school attender wants to have sex im just not interested in sex but i still want affection i want to be held and i want to kiss i want someone to go out with but everything leads up to sex and if i dont want it they still press the issue and i get offended and never call them again i love having sex but i love the lord more.

Its not only because of my faith its a respect factor also i am tired of giving a part of myself to someone who is not going to appreciate it for more than a few months so why have sex at all so i could possibly be one of the many with STDs or worse