Says who? That depends on the individual

Well I can not account for cultures where I have never lived so I won't dispute your assessment but here in the USA size sure does not seem to matter in the dating scene and or the wedding industry. You see beautiful plus size women in all venues and if you try to find a plus size party dress , wedding dress, or business clothes they are often sold out because of so much demand.

I don't know if you have the option to relocate but I have always said you have to be in a "target rich " environment. That can be related to your age, faith, education, number of children, or even size but if you are in a location that is going to make a disproportionate number of women for the number of men who want them your chances are going to be dismal.

This is particularly true of smaller communities or highly segregated communities where if you do not fit and exact mold you are stacking the deck against yourself.

Maybe it is not changing every factor in your life but modifying some. Maybe you will have to enlist family and clergy and friends and non traditional means to find your opportunity but they are out there.

One thing I know for a fact is that there are men who don't have the perfect measures, and or men who do, and just pain don't care about measures because other things are what really matter to them. I will keep you in prayers that you find one soon. Good Luck