LOL funny...funny... I like it

True in a way...but I was taught to be direct without being rude. They can be one and the same when said without tact. I am also very direct, but only when it's necessary. You are going to get tons of people that don't even read your blog before they contact you. So why be direct at the expense of looking rude to the ones that will read it?

good post.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!! oooh that was funny stuff there.
However...my profile doesn't say no short men. lol
It doesn't say no old men either for the same reason. lol

I just saw a profile on here that the first thing the blog said was
"White men only!" omg! Are ya sure? lol I mean geez. I'm going to say it, that is out right rude and unnecessary at all get out! lol
Why can't they just decline an invitation to talk if they don't want to date a black man? That would make me feel singled out and rejected for the color of my skin. Should my profile say No ASIANS?? It might as well to me. I think African Americans have been through enough and don't need to see that first thing on someone's profile. Rude rude rude. Take it down you. lol

Oh my my my...and you have proven another point I may post a topic about.... that men your age are the last generation of real lovin gentlemen that know how to be a man to a woman out there.

I hate hurdles

True true... I would prefer my guy is my size or taller. I was married to a guy that was smaller than me by more than a few inches. I did long to look up to him for some strange reason. But he was very strong, and stocky so he was always stronger and could lift me up no problem. That was all the same because of his physique.

I guess I need to be looking for a man that is at least 6'2" and is completely turned on by the amazon women lol. Strong, smart, and cunning...and able to arm wrestle you. lol

This thread is really old, but I think I forgot to come back and read these posts. All of them are very good to read, thank you.
I must say though, that I was not referring to small mannerisms that I couldn't tolerate like toilet seats and mustard dripped on boxers. lol
I was an extremely happy person when I met this guy. This is one of the things he said he fell in love with was my humor, and happy go lucky nature. I don't hang out with people for them to make me happy lol, they hang out with ME because I am happy and they want me to make them laugh and be happy.
I am talking about a total disregard of attention and affection. He professed and displayed a huge amount of love and affection, and expressed it openly. He was attentive and offered to buy all my friends their round of drinks etc. Then he moved in, and I found out he could squeeze a nickle till the buffalo poops, and rarely got up from his computer except to go to work and smoke. He took my company for granted for the next 3 years. Yes, I gave it that long because he kept telling me he understood what I was saying, and he would work on it. The compliance kept me hopeful. I had a very deep love and attraction for this man. So a very high tolerance to small things. I never complained much about small things. I told him to NOT worry about the toilet seat. I think it's funny when I don't look and fall in the bowl in the middle of the night. lmao.
He also had several very bad, hurtful addictions and was a convicted felon. I told him in the beginning what my boundaries were with porn, lies, betrayal, etc...he stepped over them all.
I did leave finally. But he is still after me. He says he wants to change, and gets impatient with me that I don't trust him now. wth?

I agree with one of the posters here that you have to roll the dice no matter what. You will not know what it's like to live with someone until you do. You can waste a year going slow to make sure it all fits, just to move in together and find out he's a big fat turd wrapped in a pretty paper. I don't like wasted time. I like to know right away who someone is inside. I don't want some fake crap to get used to just to have him pull out the con artist card.... And next time, if there is one, I will boot him out after 30 days of ignoring me.

Madness - Muse

My opinion is it would depend on the relationship. All the relationships you have are different. The intensity or measure of love you have from one relationship to another will vary.
One of my ex's didn't get forgiveness for much, but another ex got me to forgive tons of things as he broke every rule in the book of love. I don't think there is any rhyme or reason to how many times. It's just what you feel like you can do at the time. If this person keeps trespassing on your heart, it will eventually wear your heart down to a nub. You then may decide enough is enough.
It also can depend on if your partner has a big problem with something. Mental illness, or addiction, (if there is a difference lol), can cause a lot of trouble in a relationship, and end it if you don't get help in accessing why your partner keeps doing things that are not cool. Addictions etc, require more forgiveness from you. Even in that, your partner needs to be constantly working towards getting better in a way you can see it, so you will have the willingness to forgive if they mess up again. Some people mess up many times before they finally figure out what the answers are.

I'm going to get a tad personal. Hopefully some of you that commented will come back and answer...
My experience is that although my partners haven't "minded" my being so tall...I did find out from them that they did not "prefer" it. They longed for a smaller woman in the back of their minds. The little woman that can wear sexy high heels, that they can pick up and swing around, that they can feel more macho standing next to. Phrases like, "put your tiny hand in mine" doesn't happen when your hand is the size of a linebacker. lol
To me, it would be nice to be with a man that actually preferred that he was with a woman my size. Instead of seeming to settle for it. It's not the same.

you are 5'9" yea?
I am 6'1" and married a man your size.
He never felt like a runt. He was taller than me with attitude. lol
I guess it's about character for men to still feel like the masculine one.

Couldn't you "go up" on any woman? Or do you enjoy a longer climb?

lol... What do you think of tall women though burgundybry?

I would like to hear from all the dudes out there...
What do you really think of a woman that is taller than you?
(Don't worry...I won't be offended with your answers...if you've looked at my profile lol)

Hahahaha! Thanks peeps. I guess I'll keep the sass on the down low as much as I can. I'm not out to make anyone feel bad when I rip. Just can't handle all the stupid out there. I suppose I will be practicing and learning here with you all.
No, I am not a democrat... I hate politics because it's equally stupid. But yes, I do believe I have good ideas. If someone else's is better though, I will steal it and make it mine...so ya know...my opinion isn't the only one that matters. I just like to keep it to opinions that are good.
Bravalady...you rule. You got guts, and speak your truth....I like that. You may "detest" me all you like. You will make me laugh and I will love you for it. lol

Why not sex on the first date?
because i need to make sure you're worthy of me. This is a female instinct.

Do we decide we would have sex with you within seconds?
Yes... its merely identifying there is a sexual attraction. It by no means says its time to have sex.

Really, pretty basic stuff. Lol

I have a problem when I come to these forums. I read the opinions of others and it makes me want to spit nails and gouge out my eyeballs.
So I tear into someone to give them something to think about, but it's just not as satisfying as in real life. lol what to do? What do you think of people like me? Do you think it's rude or funny? lol

As it was for thousands of years. You're just pissed cause you're selfish and don't want to share. It's all about you right? Realize, men were either created or evolved to PROVIDE for their families. Get the net.