It depends, If I know the person and we are dating, there's not enough grand romantic gestures that would be too much. However, if the person is online with just basic personal information, and sending grand romantic gestures, that would cause me to sit back and ponder the sincerity. This can pose a dual frame of mind response, either the person genuinely likes me and want to share good times together, or she is in the business of manipulation for her personal gain.

If you are looking to meet someone on this site you should first post a photo, a picture is worth a thousand words. there are men like myself who desire big women for many reasons and you should be bold to engage positively with both mind and body.

There are numerous reasons why men are sexually attracted to women and that goes back to the beginning of time. some rude guys will shamelesly let you know their sexual inhibitions, while the gentle ones choose to be gentlemen.
However, there are a few things you should be aware of that can be cause for such unwanted advances, and you or other females do have some control to avoid rude dudes.
Some women intentionally or unaware that their body language, dress code, speech and whom they hang-out with invite the bad apples. Most if not all women wants to feel sexy and appealing to the opposite sex, this is natural but it can be misinterpret by some men, and thats what caused women to believe that all men are dogs, and once a dog always a dog.

The phase 'Strong Women" or 'Diva" been thrown around often without any specific definition or explanation as to the outstanding characteristics that defines a "Strong Woman". Before anyone can answer the question intelligently, the poster or those who choose to write disparaging remarks about some women, should explain in details their understanding of the distinctive traits of a "Strong Woman".

While you are at secondary school you are advised that if you want to get a better job you should go to secondary school.

While you are at secondary school you are told that to get a good job you ought to go to university.

You go to university and just prior to graduation someone tells you that for a really good job you need to go for a master's degree.

Eventually you get your master's - only to be told that to be really successful requires a doctorate.

On achieving the doctorate and feeling confident after so many years of studies you go looking for a job.

To your surprise! everyone is looking for younger people.

Me either, my bad.

My leg cramp reference was towards some females over 50 during sex, but how can leg cramps caused from lack of nutrition? Some of the youngest athletes and world record holders pulled out of races due to leg cramp spasm?????

I am also scared of horror movies, so i would join Calleigh 12 under the blanket and hope the movie never ends. lol

To be suprised by the approach of the opposite sex requesting a date is an indication that the approacher finds you attractive in some way and letting you know his or her feelings by comming on to you. Both sexes are equally turned on by positive compliments especially if the approacher looks favourable in your eyes. This also hold true in the bedroom when your significant other takes the lead and surprise you with alluring romantic gestures and out-of-character foreplays.
(use your imagination) .

I truly believe T909090 posted this topic to generate numerous controversial responses, which it did. My take on this is that most women 50 and older have matured both sexully and sensually and more often prefer men with matching experience, such as a slow hand and tender touch. Some drawbacks in this age group are dryness that can be corrected with lubricant, and leg cramps during a steamy session, not aware of a remedy for the latter.

Maybe your dis-satisfaction with this site is associated with a number of dis-functional social lifestyle and choices, such as: (1) drink often(alcoholism), (2)like to watch trash on TV (low self esteem),(3) non-religious (spiritual deficiency) (4)never married (maybe relationship issues), (5) hates shirtless male pictures (sensual inhibition), (6) admitting sounding completely mad when re-reading your own comments (self explanatory). Take your pick.

I thought the topic was "Where are the hottest nightclub spots". anyway, for starter try Klassique at Boston & Baychester in the Bronx, Fridays & Saturdays.