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But, do we really need every horny idiot who can't take a hint to end up with charges on thier record? Works like a charm. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. but also i think it would be a shame to see so many records tarnished there needs more education on it and on the consequences, I think a good chunk of the issue is that they are just uneducated on how it can be wrong, or don't realize the trouble they can get themselves in. It's usually made VERY clear in grade school, but with colleges people are under the assumption they can do/say ANYTHING they want. As if the same rules don't apply. Schools are supposed to be a safe environment and no one should feel threatened in any of the sense. The stats for campus sexual violence is sickening, and it usually starts with one person who doesn't know "NO MEANS NO!" and more times drugs/alcohol. |
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO. If he didn't have you actually questioning your hetero manhood....then what's the big deal??? My brother's gay friends all wish I wasn't straight. I find it funny and, in an odd way, kinda flattering. Also, it's a known fact gay men are usually really picky, so it is definitely a compliment! |
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I know how you feel. I had this one gay guy sit next to me at a ball game. He was giving me the eye, sizing me up, and trying to get to know me and get my number. I was like W.T.F. PSYCHO. If he didn't have you actually questioning your hetero manhood....then what's the big deal??? My brother's gay friends all wish I wasn't straight. I find it funny and, in an odd way, kinda flattering. Sounds like some broken gaydar to me, its as simple as "i dont swing that way" They usually drop it. |
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Getting hit on
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Perhaps you kids are over analyizing..... I am pretty sure she is talking about guys who can't take a hint or won't take no for an answer.... I totally realize that, after the fact. That's why I made a public apology in the other thread. apology accepted, but then again i do support free speech :D |
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I would say: Stalker is out and lurking....Have pepper spray with you... I would but it illegal to carry in NYS, but I am taking karate as a PE course :D |
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Getting hit on
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I don't think the insensitive comments here have anything to do with the posters being insensitive themselves but rather that they really don't understand what the OP is talking about. I do. The type of harrassment she is speaking of isn't the respectful, flattering approach of a man who merely is trying to express being attracted her. There is a type of aggressive harrasment made toward young females which is done purely for victimization purposes. Harrasment that more mature women and men are not subjected to. I've experienced it myself many times. Sometimes even a group of men approach me boistrously and when I try to politely say hi and keep walking in fear of my safety they insist on following me and demanding that I stop to talk to them. In some cases they may become hostile if they feel you are not responding in the way they want you to. This isn't funny or flattering to the OP I suspect. "Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people?" Although in retrospect I should have been more specific and askded: "Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people in an aggressive and confrontational matter?" Just had a bad day at school last week and got severely irked. |
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I've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about.
Casual flirting when someone acts like a gentleman and not a stalker is totally cool with me and welcomed. |
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Getting hit on
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Oh this is easy.... it is exactly like fishing....the more often you throw some bait out there...the more often you will get a bite. Just deal with it honey. Plenty of people get hit on. More often than not it is by someone who you got no attraction to and zero in common. But, at least you are attractive enough to get hit on. Could be worse....you could be posting that no one shows any interest in you. Well, very true i spose, and besides, any of the really bad ones can just be reported on. i've just had times when I was really freaked out but the times they've followed me down halls and kept asking for my number, and things like that. Also, instances where I've let them know I'm not single and they wouldn't go away. That's what my whole post is really about. |
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Getting hit on
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I think I was focusing in on her part about the "super aggressive." Getting hit on can be not such a bad thing too. 
Thank you, and i agree. gentleman are welcomed for sure. |
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Getting hit on
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I am always truly flattered and a bit embarrassed when hit on. But it is always a compliment and never annoying. Can you imagine how hard it is for them to approach a stranger they are interested in? Well, it is hard I imagine but I'm more so talking about the guys who tend to get inappropriate fast and say things that can get them sued, and the ones who like to bother me during a project. |
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Getting hit on
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Thats how I feel about persistent IMer's while I'm posting...I like to initiate the IM. 
I know!! me too! I lost track of how many I've blocked...... and yeah I'm definitely not hanging out in rooms alone anymore. |
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Getting hit on
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maybe the guy lives by the song "crazy biotch"by buckcherry...just sayin lol, maybe you're right. they are college boys after all :P |
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Getting hit on
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Well, casually flirting is fine with me ya know, just kind of playful, "not expecting to get a date out of it, but would be nice" chatting.
Like, when guys just blurt out a random compliment part of me wants to walk away faster. |
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Getting hit on
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Why do some people think it's okay to hit on random people? I'm at school doing my work and some guys just come up to me and start laying down lines, when I am at my busiest! I could take it as a compliment but at the same time it's just very annoying. It's especially awful when they get super aggressive, I thought school was supposed to be a safe environment?
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I finally got a photo!
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Autumn, I read it and I did not see anything about what you are looking for in the site?? 
Thanks for the tip! what do you think now? |
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I finally got a photo!
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Added more details!
How is it now? (And please don't bother commenting on my photo, it really is my only one uploaded to my computer. I have more but they are of me when I was young so that would just be creepy and useless.) |
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I finally got a photo!
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"I can only see half your face, and have no way of knowing if that is even a picture of you."
In all fairness I don't know if that's really a picture of you either. |
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I finally got a photo!
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Well done We still dont know what you look like. You might as well put a cat picture up. Well, at least you know I'm not ugly...lol. |
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I finally got a photo!
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I have a photo and I did my profile info up a bit?
What do ya think? |
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BEST EVER BLONDE JOKE
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awesome blonde joke!
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