Well I'm hopeless lol, never approached a girl in my life.

Is saying Hi I think you're cute, would you want to get coffee sometime all that's needed?

You men are always hung up on this "playing hard to get" bollocks. Who says it's anything to do with that? I've often wondered if that maybe is an American thing? Seriously never got this 'hard to get' BS.

I've never played hard to get, but I don't necessarily jump in the sack with a guy on the first date either. If I'm going out with a guy to see if there's something long term there, there's no need (yet) to get intimate, is there? And if all he wants is sex, he ain't the right one for a LTR so why would I waste my time?

How would you feel if you were seeing a woman for a LTR and then find out she's slept with every guy she's dated? Which seems to be what you men want her to do when YOU are on the receiving end. So what if you'd end up with that woman in a LTR? Would you still be happy about it?
I know I wouldn't be keen on being with a man who'd dipped it in everyone he's met.
I don't need to be with a male sl*t. I want a man who can think with the head on his shoulders, even when the one between his legs is screaming.